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I'm baking a cake because I don't know what else to do. In of my of bolder moments I gave up sweets and soda for lent (does cake batter count?.... damn) but it's in the oven and I've got plans involving sprinkles.
I don't know what else do to really. I'm a bit upset and the rational somewhat mature person inside me will not let the asshole meanie escape. Damn self control. Where was it all the times I fucked things up effortlessly? Anyway.
My boyfriend's friends are on his case. Claiming he is p- whipped. I hate that term so I will not use it here. And now all their complaints have hurt my feelings. A few of his friends are angry he's not still going out with them every night going after women (they're single of course). I guess it is beyond their comprehension that a man in a relationship likes to spend time with his girlfriend. I don't make him. Most if the time he suggests it. His free will... he has it and uses it.
I am not really one to have a boyfriend much less a one who hasn't broken my heart so this is a pleasant change. And now some of his buddies are bitching and moaning like guests on the Dr. Phil show. I'm tired of it because as far as girlfriends come I'm not that horrible. Sure I may fart every once and a while but I don't mind a bit when he goes out with his friends. I've even taken him to a strip club (in vegas haha) and even bought him a lap dance. I support him being a man. I know men have important bonds with other men and I certainly don't want to interfere.
I guess I'll just keep my mouth shut and try to stay as far away from the drama as I can. I just wish some people would step back and support someone else's happiness.
I don't know what else do to really. I'm a bit upset and the rational somewhat mature person inside me will not let the asshole meanie escape. Damn self control. Where was it all the times I fucked things up effortlessly? Anyway.
My boyfriend's friends are on his case. Claiming he is p- whipped. I hate that term so I will not use it here. And now all their complaints have hurt my feelings. A few of his friends are angry he's not still going out with them every night going after women (they're single of course). I guess it is beyond their comprehension that a man in a relationship likes to spend time with his girlfriend. I don't make him. Most if the time he suggests it. His free will... he has it and uses it.
I am not really one to have a boyfriend much less a one who hasn't broken my heart so this is a pleasant change. And now some of his buddies are bitching and moaning like guests on the Dr. Phil show. I'm tired of it because as far as girlfriends come I'm not that horrible. Sure I may fart every once and a while but I don't mind a bit when he goes out with his friends. I've even taken him to a strip club (in vegas haha) and even bought him a lap dance. I support him being a man. I know men have important bonds with other men and I certainly don't want to interfere.
I guess I'll just keep my mouth shut and try to stay as far away from the drama as I can. I just wish some people would step back and support someone else's happiness.