"It sounds like your doctor wants to laser burn off the tissues in your uterus"
Yep! And for the same reason your doctor wanted to scrape the lining out of you. Why on earth she didn't suggest burning it is beyond me. I mean, you did say you don't want kids, right? o.O Wanting to have babies is the only reason I can think of not to go with the burning thing rather than simply scraping. I mean, seriously, WTH? Is it because your insurance wouldn't cover it? That's the only thing I can think of...
"Heart fluttering is a side-effect o~O?! That definitely doesn't sound right! Yes, definitely check that out! Anything heart or chest related needs to be taken care of PRONTO!"Yes, I talked to Dr. Murrell (my primary care doctor), he said that wasn't cool, and told me to call Dr. Harris TODAY...But of course, my mother was too busy kissing Dr. Murrell's ass by buying him gifts and taking care of a crazy old greek lady that both my dad and I have complained to her about. She refuses to speak with this woman's god sons so they can sort things
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In my case, my OB/GYN doctor just wanted me to have a 'normal' period unlike the hell periods I've had lately (i.e. MONTH-LONG periods o~O)! I've always had extremely heavy periods (i.e. changing pads every 1-2 hours for the first 3 days of my period with a giant blast to say good-bye at the end), and my doctor told me that wasn't normal XP! I only went in to see her because of the month-long periods. She never mentioned my insurance wouldn't cover it or anything though. It SHOULD cover it considering how much I pay for insurance monthly though ;b!
It sounds like your mom is just trying to avoid her actual family in favor of a family that doesn't know how she is in reality X(! I hope Dr. Harris was able to fix that heart side-effect 8(!
"It sounds like your mom is just trying to avoid her actual family in favor of a family that doesn't know how she is in reality X(!"LOL!! YES!! THANK YOU!! Someone who GETS IT. I've told her that a million times over. The funny thing is, the people she seduces with her superficial sweetness usually end up figuring her out and telling her to fuck off because she gets more and more like her real self and they see her for what she really is. They usually feel sorry that they didn't believe me, too. XD
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Er...forgot that last part...-_-;;;libby_rustMarch 11 2009, 01:02:32 UTC
"I hope Dr. Harris was able to fix that heart side-effect 8(!"
I haven't been able to contact Dr. Harris because my mother has flat out refused to give me her number or call her for me. On the plus side, though, the heart thing is gone. I figured it would but I had to be sure.
This is yet another shining example of why I went ahead and decided to call DVIS while my mother is gone. She's deliberately trying to start shit so the doctors thing I'm crazy because they see me freaking out and she's put on this seemingly loving, caring act when she doesn't give a damn about anyone, much less me. ;p
Re: Er...forgot that last part...-_-;;;slaiMarch 12 2009, 21:11:14 UTC
Hi Libby,
WHAT >8(?! Why in the HELL would your mom PROHIBIT you from seeing Dr. Harris?! Go see another doctor IMMEDIATELY if that heart thing comes back! It almost sounds like your mom wants to sedate you or something into a coma-like drooling state 8(! GO SEE A SOCIAL WORKER IMMEDIATELY!
Re: Er...forgot that last part...-_-;;;libby_rustMarch 13 2009, 01:44:36 UTC
LOL. No, no, no...I think you misread me. She's trying to start shit by not getting me the phone number. If I wanted to, I could have kept harassing her for it, or looked it up, or called Dr. Murrell and have him look it up for me...The thing is, she's just trying to start another fight to make herself look like the victim and me look like the crazy asshole. She does this shit all the time. I've had enough of it, really. ;p
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Re: Er...forgot that last part...-_-;;;slaiMarch 14 2009, 04:35:31 UTC
Hi Libby,
Isn't there any place that can help people with autism deal with their 'loving' family that you could contact for help ;(? There must be someone there that can help you deal with your family's 'help.'
Re: Er...forgot that last part...-_-;;;libby_rustMarch 14 2009, 08:59:27 UTC
That's why I'm going to be calling DVIS, hopefully later today if daddy dearest isn't here. ;p They normally provide emergency shelter and help for women (and any children they might have) who have psycho wife beater husbands, but I was informed they'd probably help me, too, since it's more or less the same situation. I'll also be contacting the Gatesway foundation and the Bridges foundation and like, Goodwill and whoever else might be willing to help me get back on my feet. The Gatesway foundation and Bridges foundation are organizations similar to Goodwill in that they help disabled folks become independent, fyi.
It really annoys the fuck out of me that I have to go that route, because I'm not like most of the people they get...In fact, I don't think they'll really know what to do with me, LOL. I basically just need job training skills and what not. I was also given some information on vocational rehab that I'll be looking into.
My OB/GYN didn't do an ultrasound, but she did do some 'invasive' tissue sampling which really really HURT ;(! The sample she got came back negative for anything weird. She did mention it might be cysts or something, but the only way to examine that was to do the whole scraping examination thing X(! Right now, I thought the least painful thing for me to try was the birth control pill thing, which is what I've been doing for the past month. My period has still been acting weird though even after a month of pills =/.
Good luck with getting things done while your crazed mom is away >8D! Hopefully, you'll be out by the time you get back!
"My OB/GYN didn't do an ultrasound, but she did do some 'invasive' tissue sampling which really really HURT ;(!"
WTF? Why?? o.O Dude...the first thing the doctors did was schedule an ultrasound so they could see what was going on. Did they do a normal pelvic exam? I went to my mother's doctor first when I was having the psycho periods from hell, and he was awesome. Too bad he doesn't accept medicare. :/
"The sample she got came back negative for anything weird."
Of course it did. They SHOULD have done a pelvic exam, blood tests to see how your hormone levels and what not were, and a friggin' ultrasound. There was no reason to put you through that much pain. x_X
"She did mention it might be cysts or something, but the only way to examine that was to do the whole scraping examination thing X(!"Your doctor is fucking full of shit. They don't have to scrape you to see what's going on in there, hell, they only need to do a fucking ULTRASOUND! It's painless if goopy. It sounds like this idiot is trying to make you into a guinea pig or
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My sister, the doctor in residency, said the same thing about my OB/GYN's lack of ultrasound use too --;. I can't remember if she asked or wanted to do an ultrasound, but my sister said as an ER doctor, that's the very first thing they do when someone comes in complaining of vaginal bleeding. With what you said and what my sister said today, despite the fact that I thought this OB/GYN doctor was nice, I'll make an appointment next week for an ultrasound with another doctor.
The scraping part was just her suggestion as an antidote to my excessive bleeding problem ;b. Actually, what she did to me the other day could have been a pelvic exam, but I forgot what she called it. All I know was that it was more painful than a pap smear X(!
Yep! And for the same reason your doctor wanted to scrape the lining out of you. Why on earth she didn't suggest burning it is beyond me. I mean, you did say you don't want kids, right? o.O Wanting to have babies is the only reason I can think of not to go with the burning thing rather than simply scraping. I mean, seriously, WTH? Is it because your insurance wouldn't cover it? That's the only thing I can think of...
"Heart fluttering is a side-effect o~O?! That definitely doesn't sound right! Yes, definitely check that out! Anything heart or chest related needs to be taken care of PRONTO!"Yes, I talked to Dr. Murrell (my primary care doctor), he said that wasn't cool, and told me to call Dr. Harris TODAY...But of course, my mother was too busy kissing Dr. Murrell's ass by buying him gifts and taking care of a crazy old greek lady that both my dad and I have complained to her about. She refuses to speak with this woman's god sons so they can sort things ( ... )
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In my case, my OB/GYN doctor just wanted me to have a 'normal' period unlike the hell periods I've had lately (i.e. MONTH-LONG periods o~O)! I've always had extremely heavy periods (i.e. changing pads every 1-2 hours for the first 3 days of my period with a giant blast to say good-bye at the end), and my doctor told me that wasn't normal XP! I only went in to see her because of the month-long periods. She never mentioned my insurance wouldn't cover it or anything though. It SHOULD cover it considering how much I pay for insurance monthly though ;b!
It sounds like your mom is just trying to avoid her actual family in favor of a family that doesn't know how she is in reality X(! I hope Dr. Harris was able to fix that heart side-effect 8(!
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I haven't been able to contact Dr. Harris because my mother has flat out refused to give me her number or call her for me. On the plus side, though, the heart thing is gone. I figured it would but I had to be sure.
This is yet another shining example of why I went ahead and decided to call DVIS while my mother is gone. She's deliberately trying to start shit so the doctors thing I'm crazy because they see me freaking out and she's put on this seemingly loving, caring act when she doesn't give a damn about anyone, much less me. ;p
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WHAT >8(?! Why in the HELL would your mom PROHIBIT you from seeing Dr. Harris?! Go see another doctor IMMEDIATELY if that heart thing comes back! It almost sounds like your mom wants to sedate you or something into a coma-like drooling state 8(! GO SEE A SOCIAL WORKER IMMEDIATELY!
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Isn't there any place that can help people with autism deal with their 'loving' family that you could contact for help ;(? There must be someone there that can help you deal with your family's 'help.'
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It really annoys the fuck out of me that I have to go that route, because I'm not like most of the people they get...In fact, I don't think they'll really know what to do with me, LOL. I basically just need job training skills and what not. I was also given some information on vocational rehab that I'll be looking into.
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I hope they can take you in and get you away from your family ;(! Good luck ♥!
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My OB/GYN didn't do an ultrasound, but she did do some 'invasive' tissue sampling which really really HURT ;(! The sample she got came back negative for anything weird. She did mention it might be cysts or something, but the only way to examine that was to do the whole scraping examination thing X(! Right now, I thought the least painful thing for me to try was the birth control pill thing, which is what I've been doing for the past month. My period has still been acting weird though even after a month of pills =/.
Good luck with getting things done while your crazed mom is away >8D! Hopefully, you'll be out by the time you get back!
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WTF? Why?? o.O Dude...the first thing the doctors did was schedule an ultrasound so they could see what was going on. Did they do a normal pelvic exam? I went to my mother's doctor first when I was having the psycho periods from hell, and he was awesome. Too bad he doesn't accept medicare. :/
"The sample she got came back negative for anything weird."
Of course it did. They SHOULD have done a pelvic exam, blood tests to see how your hormone levels and what not were, and a friggin' ultrasound. There was no reason to put you through that much pain. x_X
"She did mention it might be cysts or something, but the only way to examine that was to do the whole scraping examination thing X(!"Your doctor is fucking full of shit. They don't have to scrape you to see what's going on in there, hell, they only need to do a fucking ULTRASOUND! It's painless if goopy. It sounds like this idiot is trying to make you into a guinea pig or ( ... )
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My sister, the doctor in residency, said the same thing about my OB/GYN's lack of ultrasound use too --;. I can't remember if she asked or wanted to do an ultrasound, but my sister said as an ER doctor, that's the very first thing they do when someone comes in complaining of vaginal bleeding. With what you said and what my sister said today, despite the fact that I thought this OB/GYN doctor was nice, I'll make an appointment next week for an ultrasound with another doctor.
The scraping part was just her suggestion as an antidote to my excessive bleeding problem ;b. Actually, what she did to me the other day could have been a pelvic exam, but I forgot what she called it. All I know was that it was more painful than a pap smear X(!
I hope you're out safe now ♥!
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