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I was just thinking that everybody in life should take my human relations class. It's so eye opening. Today Dr. Abbott asked us if we have anyone in our lives that we are so much alike that we never fight. I raised my hand because I think Kristy is that person for me. We've never had a serious fight ever. And Cody said that sometimes you have friends that aren't in your "core" group of friends but you have friends that compliment you. Me and Kristy are both, we do have differences but the differences that we have are perfectly complimentary in the sense that we almost virtually complete each other. And it's not a constant standard set of things that we compliment each other on, it varies on situations and context. We just tend to go into immediate complimentary mode when necessary. When she's weak i'm strong, when i'm miserable she's there to cheer me up. When one needs advice we think enough alike so that it's advice we'd actually follow because we'd likely have come up it with ourselves if we weren't so involved in it. We are each others fresh eyes to help and give advice.
And I know that we can go forever without talking but we will go back to normal and there is no resentment. I know we could live hundreds of miles away and still be how we are,I just hope that never happens because i'd miss her too much. I'll even go so far as to say that even if we had a huge fight I don't see it being that detrimental. I don't think there is anything that we couldn't or wouldn't work out. Especially being that our lives are so eerily similar I believe theres some aspect of fate that has made us and kept us friends for 15 years. It's as if someone or something knew what was going to happen to us way ahead of time and made us for each other so that both of us could be there for each other and come about as close as you can come to honestly say "I know how you feel since you're mom died". But we even know that neither of us feels exactly the same about our mothers but we know enough to have this closeness that most friends don't reach. It's sad circumstances that have brought us to this new plateau that is our friendship but I couldn't ask for anyone better to have to go through the circumstances with. There are two quotes that just make me think of us and they are both from movies and ones super cheesy. The first is a quote from the movie little rascals and it's "You only meet you're once in a lifetime friend, once in a lifetime" and it's so true. And the other is "You complete me" from Jerry Mcguire because like I said, with what we lack in similarities we make up for in complimenting each other.
Probably the best thing about us is that our friendship is so deep and serious but we laugh and laugh because we are so ridiculous in our sense of humors that we crack each other up and ourselves up and we don't care if other people don't appreiciate it or look at us weird. When I'm with Kristy we are in our own world where we understand each other and finish each others sentences and even thoughts...with just a look we both know that we are thinking the exact same thing and it's probably one of the coolest feelings ever when you really think about it (like I am right now obviously). Kristy is like the sister I should have had, we should have been twins, our birthdays are only 11 days apart and both of our mothers died in a weird way we almost are fraternal twins, haha. Somehow that makes sense in my head, it may not make sense to anyone else.
If one of us was a man, we'd be perfect for each other, lol. But even as girls we are perfect for each other and i'm so greatful for it. It's by far our sense of humors that keep us going because we could be perfect for each other but with the state of our lives it would be a sad relationship if we couldn't amuse each other. But evenstill if there was anyone i'd have to sit with and hate life and contemplate suicide with it would be her because we both know where the thoughts are coming from, the pain that provoked them and profound effect it has on every minute of everyday. Just thinking about this...i'm having a hard time even really wrapping my mind around what it is that me and her have. It might be even past my capabilities of understanding and that is even an amazing thought in and of itself.
And I know that we can go forever without talking but we will go back to normal and there is no resentment. I know we could live hundreds of miles away and still be how we are,I just hope that never happens because i'd miss her too much. I'll even go so far as to say that even if we had a huge fight I don't see it being that detrimental. I don't think there is anything that we couldn't or wouldn't work out. Especially being that our lives are so eerily similar I believe theres some aspect of fate that has made us and kept us friends for 15 years. It's as if someone or something knew what was going to happen to us way ahead of time and made us for each other so that both of us could be there for each other and come about as close as you can come to honestly say "I know how you feel since you're mom died". But we even know that neither of us feels exactly the same about our mothers but we know enough to have this closeness that most friends don't reach. It's sad circumstances that have brought us to this new plateau that is our friendship but I couldn't ask for anyone better to have to go through the circumstances with. There are two quotes that just make me think of us and they are both from movies and ones super cheesy. The first is a quote from the movie little rascals and it's "You only meet you're once in a lifetime friend, once in a lifetime" and it's so true. And the other is "You complete me" from Jerry Mcguire because like I said, with what we lack in similarities we make up for in complimenting each other.
Probably the best thing about us is that our friendship is so deep and serious but we laugh and laugh because we are so ridiculous in our sense of humors that we crack each other up and ourselves up and we don't care if other people don't appreiciate it or look at us weird. When I'm with Kristy we are in our own world where we understand each other and finish each others sentences and even thoughts...with just a look we both know that we are thinking the exact same thing and it's probably one of the coolest feelings ever when you really think about it (like I am right now obviously). Kristy is like the sister I should have had, we should have been twins, our birthdays are only 11 days apart and both of our mothers died in a weird way we almost are fraternal twins, haha. Somehow that makes sense in my head, it may not make sense to anyone else.
If one of us was a man, we'd be perfect for each other, lol. But even as girls we are perfect for each other and i'm so greatful for it. It's by far our sense of humors that keep us going because we could be perfect for each other but with the state of our lives it would be a sad relationship if we couldn't amuse each other. But evenstill if there was anyone i'd have to sit with and hate life and contemplate suicide with it would be her because we both know where the thoughts are coming from, the pain that provoked them and profound effect it has on every minute of everyday. Just thinking about this...i'm having a hard time even really wrapping my mind around what it is that me and her have. It might be even past my capabilities of understanding and that is even an amazing thought in and of itself.