Who would you rather choose The perfect guy who compliments you, puts you on a pedestal, but you co
"Who would you rather choose The perfect guy who compliments you, puts you on a pedestal, but you couldn't date, or the normal, flawed guy who hardly compliments you? "
That is a tough question because there are so many answers to it, and no answer is really wrong because we all want different things out of our lives and our relationships. I would love a guy who compliments me don't get me wrong, but I am all about nerdy, sweet, funny and laid back guys. I chose the second option because at the end of the day its the flaws that make us unique and capture a piece of the heart.
Secondly, A guy who compliments you all the time, or puts you on a pedstal, that makes me put my guard up a little bit, or in my case when I am upset I deal with things through laughing. In my head I'd be searching for all the ulterior motives ie. "What does he want from me." "Why is he saying that", or "Does he mean it?" Obviously, you always want the guy your dating to notice your hair when its cut,a although most guys are retarded and don't, but when they for 30 seconds stop being "special", and do its one of the most powerful compliments.
Moreover, being the sidekick girl that I am what would be the point to hanging out with guy who compliments you and treats you well, but couldn't date???? I mean this is sadly my life story, most my friends are of the male persuasion and forget I have a vagina. I'd rather be in a relationship than make anymore friends, don't get me wrong friends are always cool to have, but some of them are fucking manwhores, and I am pretty much glad they don't see me that way. ALthough, yet again I would like to be seen more that way - I know, I know its a contradicition, but I am Courtney, I don't make sense ... I am impulsive! Why waste your time pining over someone who will never see you for anything else, but the friend, or little sister anyways, when Mr. Flawed, but could be the right person for you walks through the door???
Right now I have a Mr. perfect guy, who compliments me all the time, takes me out all the time, but we can't date , and as sucky as that is Mr. Flawed will come , or is here he just has no idea. I sometimes still do the pining ....not going to lie.
"If we were a movie you'd be the right guy and I'd be the bestfriend that you'd fall in love with at the end."