I wanna know how Freddie can't see Effy is really in a bad moment. It probably has to do with the whole "he doesn't really know or understand her" thing. But idk.
Well the fact that it's already gotten to this point means something's been up for awhile and he's the one who's been spending the most time with her (he's her boyfriend). People don't just suddenly "have a breakdown"...it builds up. And she's been noticeably acting OOC around him for awhile, if he knew her, he would have realized that she was being that way. Even Katie has suspected that Effy's whole "I'm happy" thing is a front.
Something has been up with Effy since S1 so yes, that's true. And from what I've experienced with people who have serious mental health issues you can't exactly help them and their problems don't have to be anything out of the ordinary. It comes to a head in a moment. You can try and help them and you can notice what's happening, but what is he supposed to do? She ends up in a clinic one way or another. It was just the moment that was being waited for. Should he have taken her there sooner? She's also shown that she doesn't take kindly to "help" either from other people or from certified individuals either
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I'm not saying that Freddie should be able to "save" her (as the only person who can really do that is Effy herself). But, if he really understood her, he would have noticed that something was up and it looks like he doesn't actually realize that there's deeper problems there until the whole thing blows up in his face. As far as Effy letting people "take care" of her, she has in the past -- with Tony and with Cook -- when she needed someone the most. She may not ask for help or say when she's feeling lost or depressed, but that doesn't mean that she doesn't want it from the people who care about her.
I'm not sure why we're talking about her parents right now though, since how her parents act towards her and how Freddie acts is not mutually exclusive. Sure, they should be there in this episode to help her through it. But Freddie is the one who claims to be ~in love with her, that should hold some weight as well.
I don't know if Tony or Cook could have prevented it from happening, since that lies with Effy alone, but they probably
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Yes, Effy is the only person who can save herself. Hmm, I suppose. Cook, Tony and Effy are all basically the same person, though, so naturally they'd understand her actions a bit more. Tony's known her the longest, he's her brother
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Cook, Tony, and Effy are very separate and different people actually. They each also have very different personality types (if you go by the MBTI or any other system). They just have a few certain qualities in common that make them so compatible with one another. But that doesn't mean that's automatically why they understand her better.
I'm concentrating on Freddie's role in this because the episode is focusing on it and he's the one who is completely alone with Effy for this entire time, so obviously he's going to be the one people are focusing on
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Well, yeah, but their main aspects are more similiar than they are different. I think it does. If you can't symphatize with what someone is feeling, you can't really understand them. I have that problem a lot between myself and other people. People don't think I have any reason to feel upset about certain things but that's because they don't understand that I can't help but feel that way
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I wanna know how Freddie can't see Effy is really in a bad moment.
The episode trailers look every interesting.
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It probably has to do with the whole "he doesn't really know or understand her" thing. But idk.
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It's kind of the story of her life, though.
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I'm not sure why we're talking about her parents right now though, since how her parents act towards her and how Freddie acts is not mutually exclusive. Sure, they should be there in this episode to help her through it. But Freddie is the one who claims to be ~in love with her, that should hold some weight as well.
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I'm concentrating on Freddie's role in this because the episode is focusing on it and he's the one who is completely alone with Effy for this entire time, so obviously he's going to be the one people are focusing on ( ... )
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