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[skh2022]

** Today i had a convo with _______ and he/she was talking about churches. I mentioned that i may go to Jesus Prom tonight (i didnt end up going) and they QUICKLY got very judegemental. Im not sure what made ________ ask me the question he/she asked, but they asked me, "Oh, is there going to be alcohol there?" I dont quite understand why someone

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[anonymous]

Well, it was kind of a slap in the face to me as well. I didn't realize that you would be the kind of person to judge that quickly. The thing that was said, "I would never go to _______ church. They scare me."... my question to you is, Have YOU ever taken a chance to get to know THEM. It's not at all that those people do not want to have a conversation with you or anything like that, you jump to conclusions because those people aren't just like you. A lot of people from CBC are getting very judgemental about things lately. For instance, if a mistake is made, the person who made the mistake is kicked to the curb. This is one of the many reasons people are leaving CBC... they do not fell wanted to accepted. It really hurts to get pushed away from people you thought were your friends. I know this from past experience. It hurts badly and breaks my heart. I love the people at CBC, but I have lately been feeling out of place and unwanted when I even breeze past a door there. It is such a bad feeling. You are not the only person

[saraho620]

I love you anyway..

[ifuwouldkissme]

its funny how u posted anonymous, but its wrong that u assumed she was being judgemental, she was just trying to let u know and ask u questions she didnt know. please dont think that she was trying to "kick u to the curb". jess u know that we all love you, and u know that we are ur true friends...please just try and think about whats going on...and the church thing really isnt my business, but i know that sara wasnt trying to be judgemental...bye love.

[jesskerrcheer]

i know i just felt like being anonymous i didnt care if everyone knew who it was!!! and it wasnt just that comment that has been bothering me... its been several, just this time i said something

[ifuwouldkissme]

I love you!

[amberlyn89]

hey girl! i love ya 2 death! and i know you so much.. and i definitely know u didn't mean to be judgemental, even if it appeared that you were... i know ur heart.. it's all good! I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!

by the way, every 1 can definitely be judgmental @ some point in their lives.. no getting around it!

[jesskerrcheer]

i never said i wasnt judgemental. actually i said i was VERY judgemental but im trying not to be as bad about it.... some people dont try, which is why so many people are having problems right now becuase other people try to throw the blame off on someone else and cant just admit that they were wrong about something and move on

[amberlyn89]

yeah.. i know u didn't say u weren't judgemental.. i was just making a point.. cuz some people think they aren't (not you).. but every 1 can be.. and i was just making a statement it wasn't directed towards u @ all... cuz i know i can definitely be judgemental too... sorry if it looked like it was directed towards you!! and i'm way over this now.. and i don't really even wanna get involved... cuz it's not my business.. i was just saying this...

[jesskerrcheer]

and part of the reason you dont understand where i am coming from is becuase you have a hard time listening to other peoples side of the story, you just pick a side and stick to it which kinda sucks for the person on the other side.... im not trying to be mean but the circle at CBC needs to be broken up if you really are concerned about "people getting closer to God." because its not going to happen if things dont change fast

[ashley106]

I know exactly how you feel, but I also get where she's coming from... please just talk to each other about how you're feeling. Don't let something like this ruin a great friendship. I made that mistake before and it's something that's almost impossible to fix.

[jesskerrcheer]

i know what all of you all are saying... but some of you just dont really understand the situation and neither does sara so i am totally not blaming her for the whole thing at all it was just something she said to me that really made me mad. But i also get where you are coming from, some of you all just dont get where I am coming from... thats the problem