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[skh2022]

** Today i had a convo with _______ and he/she was talking about churches. I mentioned that i may go to Jesus Prom tonight (i didnt end up going) and they QUICKLY got very judegemental. Im not sure what made ________ ask me the question he/she asked, but they asked me, "Oh, is there going to be alcohol there?" I dont quite understand why someone

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[anonymous]

Well, it was kind of a slap in the face to me as well. I didn't realize that you would be the kind of person to judge that quickly. The thing that was said, "I would never go to _______ church. They scare me."... my question to you is, Have YOU ever taken a chance to get to know THEM. It's not at all that those people do not want to have a conversation with you or anything like that, you jump to conclusions because those people aren't just like you. A lot of people from CBC are getting very judgemental about things lately. For instance, if a mistake is made, the person who made the mistake is kicked to the curb. This is one of the many reasons people are leaving CBC... they do not fell wanted to accepted. It really hurts to get pushed away from people you thought were your friends. I know this from past experience. It hurts badly and breaks my heart. I love the people at CBC, but I have lately been feeling out of place and unwanted when I even breeze past a door there. It is such a bad feeling. You are not the only person this has come from, several people do not realize how their action effect people. I know that my actions do hurt people a lot of the time and after it happened to me, it is something I am trying very hard to correct. It is a slap in the face to me also to find out who my true friends really were after one bad mistake was made whether they choose to admit it or not.

[saraho620]

I love you anyway..

[ifuwouldkissme]

its funny how u posted anonymous, but its wrong that u assumed she was being judgemental, she was just trying to let u know and ask u questions she didnt know. please dont think that she was trying to "kick u to the curb". jess u know that we all love you, and u know that we are ur true friends...please just try and think about whats going on...and the church thing really isnt my business, but i know that sara wasnt trying to be judgemental...bye love.

[jesskerrcheer]

i know i just felt like being anonymous i didnt care if everyone knew who it was!!! and it wasnt just that comment that has been bothering me... its been several, just this time i said something

[skh2022]

PLEASE let me know what other things ive said that bothered you because i really truly want to know what i did wrong and fix it.
&thank you for saying something to me about it, if im doing something wrong then i need some one to set me straight and i admire you for doing that
but i really really wish you would have came to me personally instead of posting it on lj for the world to see my mistakes