Writer's Block: Secret Crush
Heh, this is a very appropriate question for me at the moment. I've been crushing hard on someone that I work with over the last couple months. There seems to be some reciprocal flirting going on, but there's nothing that's telltale from his end. To add to the matter, he's my boss :) So, do I tell him?? NO! At least not at this point in time. If I were to do it now, I fear that it would change the dynamic way too much at work. Not to mention, I'd feel like he had some kind of upper hand on the situation and I don't like that :) The situation would be different if we were at a non-work related function and there was an obvious chemistry, then given those circumstances I may decide differently. Right now though, I think all it would do is add some discomfort on both our ends at work and I wouldn't want that happening. I work in a very laid back environment and, for the time being, I'm content with the flirting to be honest. It adds something to the day and makes me look forward to going. If that were to change it may become stressful and I would end up worrying about every tiny little thing. That wouldn't be condusive to the work itself.