Jul 29, 2002 10:27
Is there such a thing as the perfect man? I would so love to think so...what is he to me? I can no longer tell....well we could list waht I want in a man, and this is a livejournal, so that really wont matter will it? ok well here I go...
The perfect man
1) he must be something of a character.
2) never shady never dull
3) have green eyes, (those blonde haired blue eyed men freak me out)
4) He should want to run around with me and not feel stupid about it.
5) Make a joke to apologize for silly mistakes.
6) be serious when he needs to be, but know how to lighten the moment with a smile.
7) He must listen to the word NO and know when it is serious.
8) Preferably taller, but size doesnt matter too much.
9) talk polotics without getting offened if you call him a bleeding heart libral or a hard nosed republican.
10) Never be possesive or malicious.
11) Admit he is wrong.
12) explain things with out getting angry.
13) tell me when I am wrong and make me understand so that I dont cause him pain.
14) Smile! need I say more...?
15) not afraid to let me in, cuz this will give me comfort to be open
16) Be understanding
17) have a life, but still make time to talk even if its for a min
18) call just to say he hasnt forgotten who I am
19) hold me really tight
20) make love like it means the world to him
21) be realistic but not shoot down my dreams of utopia
22) make me aware of the world around me and guide me when I need it
23) be a friend before he is a lover
24) never cheat
25) never lie...honesty is always a must, especially when it comes to feeling
26) be accepting of things that can not be changed...and not rant on with complaints of things he can not change.
27) a Job would be nice
28) not afraid to be romantic (PDA all the way!)
29) not afraid to be daring
30) compasionate to the world he lives in
31) humble, or modest...its one thing to know your good another to let the rest of the world know it too
32) listen and not assume.
33) wisdome is always a beautiful thing
34) not be afraid to cry infront of me
35) partake in group activities
36) show no shame in being with me
37) love me unconditionally
38) respect my wishes and understand that they are important to me
39) have some sort of morality
40) have respect for the opinions of others
41) never talk down to others or treat them like they are stupid for not knowing or understanding things
42) keep a secret
43) come to my defense
44) know that there is a time and a place for everything.
45) not afraid to go away to places.
46) know that work isnt life and life isnt work
47) treat me like a best friend even if we are more
48) not afraid to be loud in public
49) knowing laughing doesnt have to hurt
50) never laugh at the expense of others
51) is giving
52) is receptive
53) can say he loves me and mean it
54) can be crazy Ie...loves to skinny dip...or would go bungy jumping or sing
55) speaking of singing...would serenate every so often...even if he isnt musically inclined
56) loves to learn new things about people, the world or even himself.
57) not afraid to grow
58) have direction
59) doesnt worry about how the wrold will precieve him, but knows that the people who love him are the people who matter.
60) Knows that I love yous are forever
61) would play in the rain or snow
62) accepts the beauty of nature and what is around him, at least in private
63) is macho when he needs to be, and is protective of the things he cherishes.
64) likes the ocean
65) has imagination
66) is constantly willing to change his mind, or consider valid points made by others
67) would do things from the heart and at the spurr of the moment.
68) knows actions speak louder than words
69) remembers that family is important
70) will include me in activities and is appreciiative in being included in activities
71) loves to go out and see the world
72) likes long trips (even if he has to do all the driving)
73) intellectual
74) loves to play around or wrestle
75) enjoys helping others
76) has to be cute...should have some sort of looks that wont repulse me at some point
77) a tender kisser but can be aggressive at times
78) is proud of himslef and those he loves...doesnt feel that life is one big competition
I think thats pretty much it....they are all equally important to me and are in particular order. It makes me feel good that I have all these things in mind. I know that there is no man on this green earth that can possibly fill ALL of these requirements, but really would love to try. I mean most of them to me are easier than people think they are find, yet some of them are difficult. one day in some life, Ill find them some way.