Jan 27, 2005 21:34
There's a time in every girls life when she's truly gotta ask herself..is she ready, to go steady? To be Johnnys football..
Three important rules for breaking up, don't put off breaking up when you know you want to, prolonging the situation only makes it worse.
Tell him honestly simply kindly but firmly, don't make a big production,
don't make up an elaborate story, this will help you avoid a big tear-jerking scene, if you want to date other people, say so, be prepared for the boy to feel hurt and rejected, even if you've gone together for only a short time
and haven't been too serious there's still a feeling of rejection when somebody says she prefers the company of others to your exclusive company
but if you're honest and direct, and avoid making a flowery emotional speech
when you break the news, the boy will respect you for your frankness
and honestly. He'll appreciate the kind straight-forward manner
in which you told him your decision, unless he's a real jerk or a cry-baby.. YOU'LL REMAIN FRIENDS.
I'm so bored with everything. I've never felt this before, yes I get bored easily but I'm in the mist of my life where absolutely nothing is exciting me at all, which is weird because all these happenings are occurring, and I'm completely untouched by most of it. I've been pulled in such a strange direction. Then, the one thing I think would make me happy, is what can never be, because, I think I blew it. Oh, how I long for it to be spring and to be dancing in Georgian Bay with tiny bells upon my ankles. (And you, along my side, creating the rhythm of life on the bongos and guitar.)