Wedding Stuffs...

[shannonolippy]

Ok so...Peter & I will be getting married much sooner than we had planned. And NO it's not due to a whoopsie in the pregnancy dept (I'm def NOT pregnant); I know that's what people immediately assume. Peter feels it would be more practical in terms of Health Insurance, living together, and his terrible fear of public speaking. He wants a really

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[shannonolippy]

I will do my utmost best m'dear, as I only have 3 bridesmaids, you being one of them :) My MOH Brianna, you, and my SIL. That's IT, so no worries, you're on the top of the list :) And thank you for being understanding. I wasn't trying to be bitchy-defensive, it's just I've been down this road before in lots of areas of my life, and I know by now how people tend to react; particuraly to ME about this stuff :-P

Not only do I think it's absolutely the right thing to do, both my parents AND his parents feel the same way. That's a very good sign. Especially his mother since his mother didn't shine to be at first. It's the least stressful, most pragmatic way we can do it for BOTH of us, and that's important. I've never been so confident about a relationship in my life. Seriously, he's The One, and I have absolutely NO doubts about that. Neither does he :) We're trying to plan for a real, serious-house-with-kids-joint-working life together. Being that he's 33 and I'm nearly 32, we want to really get cracking on it. Especially with the whole biological clock, my grad degree et al. The only way to start getting our act together about being together is to start by matrimony and go from there. We've already done finances, talked about when to have kids, how long my degree will take, when I start working after we have our first child, where we want to settle down, how much we can spend on a house, a working household budget (for now as well as the future), etc. It's time, really. :)

BTW: You're going to be a fantastic Bridesmaid :)

[karnerblue]

Aw, thanks! And yeah, I totally know how some of that feels. I'm 32 already, after all. Tick-tock, life's a'wastin', y'know?

[fuzzball21]

??? life doesn't start after you marry. life is happening now :)

[karnerblue]

Yeah, but there's young, single, dating life, and then there's adult, married, settled-down life, with a household and maybe kids.

[yander]

Being married an adult does not make, I am very happy being a kid thank you very much.

life is what happens while you are making other plans, don't let it pass you by while you are waiting for something else.

[yander]

Wait Wait, I totally missed this, by this logic, does this mean you think I am an adult, and not just an adult but more of an adult than yourself??