Cycling Around
The cycle continues.
I posted last week about an issue with a friend that keeps happening. And I got a message that continues the cycle.
After he does these things to me and I tell him that he's being rude he goes off in a huff. A few days (or weeks) will go by and I'll get a message from him saying that he was wrong to treat me in such a way. I forgive him and step lightly around his feelings for $number of days. Eventually though it repeats.
I keep yo-yoing back to him and destroying my emotional health.
He's not going to change so I have to. To be a better me I have to stop the cycle, because I love myself.
I posted last week about an issue with a friend that keeps happening. And I got a message that continues the cycle.
After he does these things to me and I tell him that he's being rude he goes off in a huff. A few days (or weeks) will go by and I'll get a message from him saying that he was wrong to treat me in such a way. I forgive him and step lightly around his feelings for $number of days. Eventually though it repeats.
I keep yo-yoing back to him and destroying my emotional health.
He's not going to change so I have to. To be a better me I have to stop the cycle, because I love myself.