What is the deal with Ex's?
This is my question.
Lately, Rachel has definitely rekindled her friendship at least with ol' Eugene. It's nice, from their point of view, but I always wonder about the third person in that relationship, since I was on the receiving end of that one once... And it entirely blew.
I know that I definitely wouldn't want Liam rekindling even a friendship with his ex, but that's because of the scenario I just spoke of, which I will keep secret from the interweb for now.
BUT, I sent a facebook message to one of my own exes about some kid we mutally know turning up at my work. And he sent such a nice response! It was funny, since I don't talk to him really much anymore. But it was a really nice reply, and it made me feel really good.
But, I would feel uncomfortable if Liam was doing something like that, I know I would. Yet I feel okay about it, because I know that no matter how nice the message is, it doesn't make me want to do anything romantic about it, nor is it meant to I don't think.
Yet I can't trust that I would be okay with it if it was reversed!
Exes are so weird!
Lately, Rachel has definitely rekindled her friendship at least with ol' Eugene. It's nice, from their point of view, but I always wonder about the third person in that relationship, since I was on the receiving end of that one once... And it entirely blew.
I know that I definitely wouldn't want Liam rekindling even a friendship with his ex, but that's because of the scenario I just spoke of, which I will keep secret from the interweb for now.
BUT, I sent a facebook message to one of my own exes about some kid we mutally know turning up at my work. And he sent such a nice response! It was funny, since I don't talk to him really much anymore. But it was a really nice reply, and it made me feel really good.
But, I would feel uncomfortable if Liam was doing something like that, I know I would. Yet I feel okay about it, because I know that no matter how nice the message is, it doesn't make me want to do anything romantic about it, nor is it meant to I don't think.
Yet I can't trust that I would be okay with it if it was reversed!
Exes are so weird!