no longer single
So Tom and I 'made it official' on Sunday, and everyone who knows besides a few choice people are just really happy for us. The thing that I really like is that I've gotten the self-confidence and the self-respect to actually limit myself and take my time with this one. No clothes coming off or sex right away. It's just hanging out, having fun, enjoying eachother's company. It's nice to be in something where neither of us are expecting anything, but just realize that we're at least good where we're at now. For once, I'm just letting myself live completely in the moment with the relationship portion of my life and it's like a sense of freedom I didn't have when I kept trying to look ahead to see if it was something that could turn into the rest of my life. I'm too young to be thinking that way, and I'm much happier just being able to not worry about it. Still, the more time I spend with him, the more I want to spend time with him. He always makes me laugh and there's never a dull moment. He plays the guitar in a band, too, and writes songs, so that's hottt! Haha. Well, gotta go and take care of some stuff, so hasta.