Where do people blog now?
I'm thinking of starting a new written journal. I haven't attempted that in about a year, but maybe it is time again.
So I got married. Married life isn't much different from unmarried like with 2 exceptions: (1) people continually ask you how married life is treating you and (2) the house is a COMPLETE and UTTER mess filled with wedding gifts, boxes, honeymoon luggage, and post wedding wedding day stuff that was piling up from before the wedding. Overall I can't remotely get ANYTHING clean.
By the time I get a few wedding things organized and taken care of the dishes need washing, the laundry needs done or worse I have to actually go to work/my job. Not to mention the effort of changing my name which I've only been able to do at the two important places (SSA and DMV) and eventually will move into other territory (insurance, bank, car stuff, loyalty programs, work stuff, passport, credit cards, etc.... etc.....etc...) that is just a big pain in the butt.
The biggest thing that needs to be taken care of is budgeting and joint accounts for bills and other things.
Surprisingly I've been reading more lately which is nice. It probably has to do with me being sick the week after the honeymoon and Ryan being sick the week after I was sick (YAY GERMS!) so we were going to bed at 8:30, sleeping half the day in general and so now we have started a new bedtime of 8:30 so we have time to :prepare for bed: and no that doesn't mean sex... it just means we can read a book, watch a T.V. show or talk. It's a very nice new thing although I don't foresee it lasting much longer now that we are back at full not sick strength.
I will be so happy when the house is back in decent shape. I am planning on starting a weekly board game night where I ban cell phones or something. Could be fun! Overall Im just happy the wedding is over... even if Thank you cards are going to be annoying to write.
Lastly I'm not pregnant. In case the one person who reads this really cared. Even i didn't care. I wasn't worried... but it was probably the ONLY time I've ever had the real possibility of such being reality. (YAY BEING ALL SAFE) I want kids and I feel the sooner the better.. however I DEFINITELY want to lose about 50 pounds before I get pregnant. Either way I'm financially prepared, but for ease and safeness I'd rather lose the weight. I'd also like to plan it slightly more. Who knows how Ryan feels about it... but I think all our discussions have ended with we won't be actively trying or NOT trying.... but more conversations will definitely be happening.
For some reason I started this post like I had a million things I wanted to say.. overall I left it with the feeling that I just wanted to write a blog...
So I got married. Married life isn't much different from unmarried like with 2 exceptions: (1) people continually ask you how married life is treating you and (2) the house is a COMPLETE and UTTER mess filled with wedding gifts, boxes, honeymoon luggage, and post wedding wedding day stuff that was piling up from before the wedding. Overall I can't remotely get ANYTHING clean.
By the time I get a few wedding things organized and taken care of the dishes need washing, the laundry needs done or worse I have to actually go to work/my job. Not to mention the effort of changing my name which I've only been able to do at the two important places (SSA and DMV) and eventually will move into other territory (insurance, bank, car stuff, loyalty programs, work stuff, passport, credit cards, etc.... etc.....etc...) that is just a big pain in the butt.
The biggest thing that needs to be taken care of is budgeting and joint accounts for bills and other things.
Surprisingly I've been reading more lately which is nice. It probably has to do with me being sick the week after the honeymoon and Ryan being sick the week after I was sick (YAY GERMS!) so we were going to bed at 8:30, sleeping half the day in general and so now we have started a new bedtime of 8:30 so we have time to :prepare for bed: and no that doesn't mean sex... it just means we can read a book, watch a T.V. show or talk. It's a very nice new thing although I don't foresee it lasting much longer now that we are back at full not sick strength.
I will be so happy when the house is back in decent shape. I am planning on starting a weekly board game night where I ban cell phones or something. Could be fun! Overall Im just happy the wedding is over... even if Thank you cards are going to be annoying to write.
Lastly I'm not pregnant. In case the one person who reads this really cared. Even i didn't care. I wasn't worried... but it was probably the ONLY time I've ever had the real possibility of such being reality. (YAY BEING ALL SAFE) I want kids and I feel the sooner the better.. however I DEFINITELY want to lose about 50 pounds before I get pregnant. Either way I'm financially prepared, but for ease and safeness I'd rather lose the weight. I'd also like to plan it slightly more. Who knows how Ryan feels about it... but I think all our discussions have ended with we won't be actively trying or NOT trying.... but more conversations will definitely be happening.
For some reason I started this post like I had a million things I wanted to say.. overall I left it with the feeling that I just wanted to write a blog...