"Don't you see? There are two of you: one that kills, and one that loves."
Something that came-up: if you have a lover that has a sudden violent episode, address it immediately. Things that are left alone become triggers and will damage your relationship by association. Talk about what could have inspired the event. This will clue you in to motive, and maybe intent. Do not assume the worst. Not off the bat. Someone that you know to be peaceful can become horribly brutal if what he loves is threatened. This is human nature. You just have to make sure your love wins out over the animalistic instincts because fuck Mother Nature.