Do I have a sign on my forehead that says...
"Step right up. I want them freaky, incompatible, and dumb to boot, and I want them now?" O.o. I swear, most guys who hit on me are just that. Both online and offline. I mean I occasionally do talk to intelligent guys who I like, hitting on me. But for the most part, I've met the weirdest of them all, not including the chubbychasers and people who wanted an easy lay (I am NOT), who've tried to approach me for that. I do NOT dress skanky at all, and I don't dress like someone homely either, just for clarification.
One a guy who believed he was a demon reincarnated. Another someone who was great in every way... intelligent, nice, loved me for who I was, and even attractive... But he stalked me (As in unwarranted phone calls constantly, checked if I was online by using an app, etc. I mean really stalking, not a guy who legitimately wants your attention :/). And he was even creepy about it when I tried to stop all communication. My first ex-boyfriend was about the worst of them all. He was abusive and tried to turn me into a future housewife. That year, I was not myself at all and it took me a long time to recover from that. So I've had a lot of shitty luck with guys.
And then a good deal of the guys who hit on me are really generic guys who think Linkin Park and Disturbed make for great music. Or think Carlos Mencia is one of the greatest stand-ups ever. I'm not trying to complain because I'm too good for them or anything. I've given them a fair shot but most of them are pretty dumb guys who don't have great ambitions in life and make me wonder why they would hit or approach me at all (Counting a lot of the guys who've tried to IM me on this site). I want a serious relationship with someone who I'll like. and after it all, I have to wonder if there's some invisible sign that makes them flock to me, with complete disregards to my personality or intelligence :/.
One a guy who believed he was a demon reincarnated. Another someone who was great in every way... intelligent, nice, loved me for who I was, and even attractive... But he stalked me (As in unwarranted phone calls constantly, checked if I was online by using an app, etc. I mean really stalking, not a guy who legitimately wants your attention :/). And he was even creepy about it when I tried to stop all communication. My first ex-boyfriend was about the worst of them all. He was abusive and tried to turn me into a future housewife. That year, I was not myself at all and it took me a long time to recover from that. So I've had a lot of shitty luck with guys.
And then a good deal of the guys who hit on me are really generic guys who think Linkin Park and Disturbed make for great music. Or think Carlos Mencia is one of the greatest stand-ups ever. I'm not trying to complain because I'm too good for them or anything. I've given them a fair shot but most of them are pretty dumb guys who don't have great ambitions in life and make me wonder why they would hit or approach me at all (Counting a lot of the guys who've tried to IM me on this site). I want a serious relationship with someone who I'll like. and after it all, I have to wonder if there's some invisible sign that makes them flock to me, with complete disregards to my personality or intelligence :/.