recent epiphanies
if he seems too good to be true, he probably is.
if he'll cheat with you, he'll cheat on you.
if you baby a man who wants to be babied, he'll never become a man.
if someone warns you about a new guy, you should probably take a moment to actually consider the advice before tossing it out of your mind.
a man is not going to change how he treats people.. even if "people" includes you, and especially if he's been doing things that way for a long time and you are new to the picture... don't kid yourself.
if you think something wont/can't happen to you- it probably will. by starting out in denial before it even happens, you are setting yourself up for doom becuase then you will be even more unprepared for it when it comes around.
don't trust a guy who doesn't trust you.
if you ask about him getting tested and he gets pissed off, don't sleep with him. i mean it.
if a guy can't deal with you being emotional once in a while, he probably has issues with exhibiting his own emotions.
if he adamantly dislikes or distrusts someone you know and love, be aware that you might be eventually asked to choose between the two.
if he asks you if you would, (or doesn't understand why you wouldn't) compromise your own goals to be with him, ditch him.
if you work really hard on something you made for him and he doesn't appreciate it, first make sure it's not crap, then consider whether or not he is.
if he'll cheat with you, he'll cheat on you.
if you baby a man who wants to be babied, he'll never become a man.
if someone warns you about a new guy, you should probably take a moment to actually consider the advice before tossing it out of your mind.
a man is not going to change how he treats people.. even if "people" includes you, and especially if he's been doing things that way for a long time and you are new to the picture... don't kid yourself.
if you think something wont/can't happen to you- it probably will. by starting out in denial before it even happens, you are setting yourself up for doom becuase then you will be even more unprepared for it when it comes around.
don't trust a guy who doesn't trust you.
if you ask about him getting tested and he gets pissed off, don't sleep with him. i mean it.
if a guy can't deal with you being emotional once in a while, he probably has issues with exhibiting his own emotions.
if he adamantly dislikes or distrusts someone you know and love, be aware that you might be eventually asked to choose between the two.
if he asks you if you would, (or doesn't understand why you wouldn't) compromise your own goals to be with him, ditch him.
if you work really hard on something you made for him and he doesn't appreciate it, first make sure it's not crap, then consider whether or not he is.