Oct 12, 2009 09:13
My girl friend and I are going through similiar situations right now (friends with benefits)... over the weekend we got to talking and I mentioned my guy giving me mixed signals. She said her guy is guilty of doing the exact same thing.
Guy gets jealous when I/she talks to another guy, BUT yet our men try and hook us up with their friends or dudes they know. WHY DO THEY DO THIS?
And in my case, 98% of the time its a guy he knows I won't even be interested in. What gives?
With that said, is it wise to go on a date this week, in the hopes of making him realize:
+ I can date if I choose to do so,
+ that I don't need his help even if that was the case,
+ and that I'm not choosing him because I can't find someone else.