Dec 28, 2009 00:45
Well, I'm becoming more aware of how ridiculously emotional guys actually are compared to women, the only difference is how open they are to sharing. It's making me crazy. I feel like I'm prying when I ask them all questions as to what is wrong, but holy crap. Don't they realize that when we, as friends, ask them to tell us what is really bothering them that we are trying to show we care? I have a lot of crap going on in my life right now, but I would still stop to listen to someone else going through their own crap. One talks about "keeping things close to the vest" and is being very strange. He was all talkative a week ago and suddenly won't talk to me. I aske dif it has to do with me, and he says no, but I trust an answer like that as much as I'd trust an angry rattlesnake...Which I guess is about how much trust he has in me to listen tohis issues. Obviously, this turned into a thing about ONE guy, not all. I don't know why it bothers me so much, other than that he's very good friend that is usually very pleasant.I don't know, I'm tired and rambling...I need dream tea...O_O
men,
life,
psychology of people