For Shari, because i'm angry and hurt

May 20, 2006 02:38

Things that my former friend Shari has done to me that has hurt ( Read more... )

hurt, betrayal, anger

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oneofhearts May 21 2006, 07:46:49 UTC
you know, i can certainly understand you being angry at her, but to be honest i feel really sorry for people like that. i truly pity anyone like that, i can't imagine how they can live with themselves. i also can't imagine how any people like that could have any friends, unless it's just other people exactly like them. there's nothing you can really do to change the way that she acts, all you can do is try to stop hating her for it. i know that isn't exactly going to be easy, if it's even possible. but while you can't change anything about peopler like that, you can change the way you react to them. i guess it doesn't really help much saying all of this though, sorry.

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forgiveness selfhater17 May 21 2006, 19:33:59 UTC
Don't be sorry for saying that - I think i know what you mean. I should stop being angry at her, because i know that it is not completely her fault for some of the things she feels driven to do. For some people, unfortunately, it is just easier to be angry and live in denile rather than face the truth. I do not really understand people who do and i really hope i do not do that myself.

Letting go of my own anger is difficult though, because i am dealing with my own immaturity and insecurity issues.

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xzcryingveinszx May 22 2006, 22:19:52 UTC
im so sorry that u feel like that sweetheart *hold u* i wish i was there to cheer u up

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selfhater17 May 23 2006, 03:17:39 UTC
Thanks!

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