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[seejanestay]

What do you do when you realize what you want and you can't have it? I have finally figured it out. i finally have clarity and all i want is to just stop what im doing and embrace it. But won't i be a failure if i don't continue at wmu? I just don't know what to do. I am so burned out from school that i can't bring myself to realize its important.

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[copper_topp]

In the end you just have to do what's right for you, and what's right for you may not be right for anyone else. Having your family be disappointed won't be the end of the world if that's the outcome of your actions. In the end, you can't live your life for someone else because when you finally get there you won't be happy. Life isn't about pleasing others, it's about figuring out who you are and your purpose. THe path you take to get there may be a twisted turning thing that loops around crazily and crosses you over the same spots, but as long as you end up there, all is good.

try not to think about your family. it's hard, believe me I know, but in the end, you're living for jane. your family loves you and even if it takes them awhile, they will come around and realize that although your path was not theirs, your destination is equally good or even better. They love you, they'll deal.

Besides, it's not like they always make decisions based on your wants, right? Just take a deep breathe, rationalize with your self if taking this new path will put you in a better spot than you are now, and then take the step that puts you on that path. It's all you can do.

btw, i <3 your face and havent seen you in fricken forever. teh end.

[seejanestay]

:) You have such great wisdom. Seriously that was what i really needed to hear. thank you so much. i really mean it! i heart your face too!!!! hugs!