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[secretsolitaire]

merkuria introduced me to the Pervocracy blog today, which is all about sex, polyamory, BDSM, and feminism, so of course I was mesmerized for an hour or two. *g* My favorite post so far is this one: Sex Anyway (rated R or so), in which the writer says

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[libby_drew]

So with you on the imperfect sex thing. Variety, people, please!

[secretsolitaire]

Right? I can only take so much "one finger, two finger, cock, reach-around, orgasm in perfect unison"!

[shadowclub]

Awesome, I love reading insightful thoughts about sex:)

Ah, QaF, I do so love the videos!

♥

[secretsolitaire]

Yay, enjoy!

I watch very, very few QaF vids these days, but there are definitely a few out there that work well for me.

[court1429]

Ooh, thanks for the blog link! Got it bookmarked for more in-depth reading, but I can already tell I'm going to like it.

[secretsolitaire]

You're very welcome! Hope you enjoy.

[merkuria]

Ah, you know me, just spreading some sex here and there... ;-)

[secretsolitaire]

Hee! This is an important role in fandom. ;-)

[mysid]

One of my very favorite "imperfect sex" scenes is in The Beloved by the dearly missed Laura Mason.

It's a missing scene from The Charioteer. If you haven't read The Charioteer, (But really, everyone should!) you need to know that it's set during WWII, that Laurie's leg was severely damagaed, that he has been released from the military hospital long enough to attend his mother's wedding, and that one of the two men he loves has come to the wedding as well. This is their first time having sex.

[secretsolitaire]

Oh, yes, I remember that fic! I reread it this morning and then scrolled to the bottom, where I realized I'd left a comment about five years ago mentioning, among other things, how much I appreciated the imperfection of the sex. Heh. Guess I haven't changed much in five years.