So here's a story of a boy and a girl....
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My, was I too mean to my cousin yesterday? Here's the story...
Yesterday, I was talking to my cousin and a few friends. My cousin and a friend were going out for the fourth time. Yes, she dumped him THREE times for OTHER guys and yesterday, he dumped her.
Of course, she wasn't happy. He just said he didn't feel it anymore. She was acting all depressed and saying things like, "my life isn't worth it," or "I hate life," and all that crap.
Yes, it does suicidal or something, but hear me out first. She says this only when a break up occurs and when she gets another guy, she's all right. This happened SOO many times before, I can't count and each time we've tried to comfort her. So my friend and I who were chatting with my cousin told her she didn't need a guy to be happy (we were of course trying to cheer her up.)
She said she knew and this is where I started to be mean. She said she knew she didn't need a guy to be happy and I told her she sure didn't act like it.
Next, we said to do other things other than guys and she said she can't do anything. I told her we're all here for a reason on this Earth, fulfill your damn duty.
Then, she said her life sucked and she just wanted to die. I said she never gave her life a chance to know she didn't want it anymore.
And finally, what kind of annoyed me was when she said he was the one. I then finally said, "If he was the 'one', you would've never dumped him three times for other guys."
(A lot of these are exact words.)
I'm sorry, but this is all the truth. But, now I believe she's mad at us and won't talk to either of us (although I said most of the things and my friend agreed.)
I talked to another friend about this and she suggested saying the same things, but with a better tone and more comforting. I don't know, I think I should let all this settle into her mind so she can change.
Now, just answer one question please, was I really too mean or was it okay? I feel like I've crushed a friend in need of comforting, although I kind of feel like she needed it...