Your Kink Is Not My Kink, is, for those of you who haven't seen the acronym before, the guiding principle of kinkmeme coexistence. It's how feeder kink can be in the same meme as underage, noncon, bestiality, and tickling. YKINMK is invoked in cases of kink shaming. So you don't like foot fetish? Refrain from kink shaming and scroll on by -- YKINMK ( Read more... )

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Time for a blog carnival for women and girls who write about comics!

Women Write About Comics
From the FAQ:

What’s this all about?Women Write About Comics is a blog carnival; basically a giant blog crossover. In a blog carnival, a large group of disparate bloggers, get together to share their views on a specific topic. Our goal here is to forge ( Read more... )

Recently I talked about missing Metafandom. I also talked about the slowing down of my flist/dwircle. The ~great slowdown is, I think, partly an actual LJ/DW slowdown (the natural life cycle of a social networking platform coming due), and partly due to my particular network of friends and acquaintances moving on. There are, of course, parts of LJ/ ( Read more... )

Rambly ramble - I'll tag it meta because it's the best fitting tag I've got ( Read more... )

Yeah, idek what happened. Feel free to poke me if I'm taking forever with something. In the meantime, the Die Hard Marathon is back ( Read more... )

No doubt some of you will disown me, but I'm generally satisfied and would have been happy with it as the series finale (with some adjustments obviously). It was... pretty much what I expected. With a couple of surprises good and bad, along the way. It would have been more satisfying if the season as a whole had been stronger, but yeah. ( Read more... )

Trigger warning for survivors of abuse and bullying!

Currently flocked - unfiltered - because I don't know if this post is useful, or if it's 'finished'. Please to be letting me know what you think, oh great and powerful flist. The flist has pronounced this fit to post, so I'm unlocking it ( Read more... )

While we're on the subject. Posting anon does not make one any of the above. It simply does not. Whether I'm posting about a baseball game, political philosophy or a real moment of sexual harassment I experienced. Posting anon does not, and should not, automatically disqualify me from having and sharing an opinion ( Read more... )

I've gotten addicted to reading Fandom Secrets. Curse all of you who've linked me to it over the years. (Although hey, maybe I shouldn't be cursing, since I've actually made a few friends through the comm). Recently there was a secret bemoaning the maker's lack of BNFness. Basically, "Been in fandom for years. Still not a BNF. What's the pooooooint ( Read more... )