In the last week I found three friends who had been lost somewhere along the way from adolescence to adulthood. First I got in touch with the sister of one of my best friends from childhood; these girls lived next door to me for fifteen years and somehow I lost them. Then I discovered the first true friend I made when I was a freshman at ASU; I had also misplaced her over the years. And finally, I was working yesterday, looked up, and there was my college roommate, a woman I haven't seen since her baby shower. The kid is now eight-years-old.
It's amazing how fast time goes by when you aren't paying attention. Finding these people was way better than getting a weird email from a guy who felt the need to apologize for kissing me ten years ago. I hope to get in touch with the older sister of the two next-door-neighbors. She was my closest friend growing up. Her family belonged to a--there's no nice way to say it--a religious cult, and she was demonized (no pun intended) by her fellow classmates for dressing funny, which was a required part of the cult or else she was going to H-e-double hockeysticks. Both sisters abandoned said cult as soon as they reached the age of maturity. Tonight I will go to my mom's for dinner and drive past the house next door where I spent so, so much time in my angst-ridden youth, and I will know I am back in touch with my fellow sufferers of gradeschool, junior high and HS.
Now I must repeat my Thanksgiving mantra, which goes: "Don't be unpleasant to your mother tonight. Don't be unpleasant to your mother tonightDon't be unpleasant to your mother tonightDon't be unpleasant to your mother tonight. . ."
bolt77 I know you are mumblng a similar mantra in North Dakota. Good luck to you, my friend.