A few months ago I wrote a rather cranky column for Enlightenment in which I realized, with more than a little shame, that I'd been self-censoring my fannish conversations when interacting in more "boy" oriented fandom circles. I'd been doing it unconsciously and it had everything to do with "Honorary Guy" syndrome.
What I was trying to say is much more brilliantly and eloquently expressed in this fantastic article on costuming and the Femme Doctor trend:
Doctors With Dalek Bumps: Femme Doctors