As Maddox would say: If you disagree with anything you find on this page, you are wrong.

[say_kiss]

Girls are one big fucking contradiction. Hence the reggression of my attitude. Apparantly, i had it right before when i was in highschool

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[anonymous]

Well, wow.....everyone has a good point and i can see all of them. But i guess i've kind of been there. I have had a few guy best friends and u cant totally say it's all the girls fault. Once i find out the person i am friends with likes me i tell them that i am not attracted to him in that way right away. Usually though they don't listen and think that they can changed my mind. I did date one and after awhile he just wasn't the person for me and he said all the things u just did. But if i don't have feelings for him y keep saying so? Also i've been in a few really horrible relationships.....most i get out of quickly but one....that one i was afraid to leave, the guy had an awful temper and was very manipulative, i was scared to find the outcome if i left the relationship. Now after a few years of being used and abused, i'm not just saying that the guys who have used me have told me to my face, i have found that person that was described. He tells me i'm beautiful, he always makes me laugh, he's right by my side when i'm down, and most of all he understands on y i am the way i am because of my past. Girls can dick guys over all they want and vice versa but most ppl will change once they know that person is the one. Both u jake and i have contrabuted to this just to get piece of ass or to get our own pleasure of having someone kiss your feet at all times. It's an endless cycle, it's sick, but it's life. Wouldn't life be boring if we didn't have a little drama, pain, or satisfaction?

[pags411]

As grammatically ambiguous this post was, I think I understand what's trying to be said. The poster adds a good contrast to most of the one sided discussion up until now. Guys and girls are interchangeable in the game that has been highlighted by Jake's original post. No one can overlook the fact that guys being "dicks" seems to have a much more dominating presence in these scenarios. Regardless you make a good point.

[say_kiss]

Ok, Matt and I have been analyzing this post for the past 10 minutes, all flames aside, what the fuck? Do you think you could maybe restate your points more clearly? I cant tell if the manipultive angry guy you were talking about turned into "the one" or if you even bothered to put periods in any of the right places.

Speaking of the whole "one" idea, just how many "the ones" have most people had? "I just KNOW he's right for me." I just want to highlight the fact at a point in every serious relationship, i think most people think that have found the one. The most inportant thing to realize is that people CHANGE, constantly. Feelings fade. Its not the fault of anyone if they dont feel the same tingle after a goodnight kiss that they once did. No, the other person in the relationship gets extremely upset by this (which is to be understood) and may go as far as saying that they have been "tricked" this entire time, and that the other person never cared

This is ludicris

Back to the one idea. Basically what one needs to understand is that "The line between love and hate is as thin as a whisper" (To quote Kenshin). How many relationships have ended with mutual hatred, or a failed friendship after a half ass attempt at it. If something ends, stop holding on to the tattered remnants of what you once had, hoping you can change the person back

Nothing is forever