As Maddox would say: If you disagree with anything you find on this page, you are wrong.

Feb 28, 2005 14:27

Girls are one big fucking contradiction. Hence the reggression of my attitude. Apparantly, i had it right before when i was in highschool.

" Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot...who calls you back when you hang up on him...who will stay awake just to watch you sleep...wait for the boy who kisses your forehead...who holds your hand in front of his friends...one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares...and how lucky he is to have you.."

After i saw this in someone's profile...i responded:

D r i Z Z t 20 2: whenever a guy does the things that you are talking about in your profile, the girl gets board
D r i Z Z t 20 2: girls really dont care about that, and i just dont understand why they pretend they do?
D r i Z Z t 20 2: they want a challenge, thats the biggest thrill. Hence the reason that girls like dicks, who fuck with their heads constantly. This is what everything revolves around.
D r i Z Z t 20 2: thats why girls get in bad relationshiops where guys treat them like shit
D r i Z Z t 20 2: and they stay in them...becuase the REALLY want to make the guy like them. They live off of the emotional high that is created from the uncertainty of the relationship, wondering if he feels the same insabstantial feelings towards her that she unwittingly created and told her self she feels towards him(this can then be called "love" by the girls) It goes back and forth, and the girl ends up in a masochistic state after a certain amount of time having to deal with of all this shit, and come to the conclusion that all guys suck!
D r i Z Z t 20 2: so dont say thats what you want, becuase no girl is ever happy with that kind of relationship.
D r i Z Z t 20 2: that type of guy is the girls best friend, who they bitch to about how much of an ass there boyfriend is, when the guy is inadvertantly borderline obsessed with them
D r i Z Z t 20 2: why do they do this?, becuase they love the constant drama/pain that they thrive off of
D r i Z Z t 20 2: meanwhile...the best guy friend is in love with the girl, but he never wins, he cries to himself every night about how much he likes said girl...
D r i Z Z t 20 2: THEREFORE, he literally loses all hope of you liking him(which is then generalized to every girl in his mind), and STOPS CARING. He then turns into what you call "a dick" (aka your real ideal guy) to get what he wants, and he of course hurts some different girl, its a continium that will never end.
D r i Z Z t 20 2: the chain continues, and noone says that they are completely happy. But in reality, they are more content then they would be with the hypothetical fairy tale relationship. They whine about how all guys are dicks, and how they want to find that special guy that will treat them like they are the center of the world. Guess the fuck what, you dated him a few months ago, and broke up with him for most likely a stupid reason, but why did you really? you were board, and you won, he liked you now. Now this guy still calls you time and time again and laugh with your friends about how crazy he is. Sound familiar? How can you all be so blind to what is really happening becuase more often then not this is reality. Definatly not in all cases, but thats not my point.
D r i Z Z t 20 2: ...can you see this at all?

All I am saying is that i want to stop reading the bullshit about how all guys are dicks and dont give a shit about girls. Guess what, you created the scenario through your fickle attitude towards guys and relationships. Now fucking deal with it and stop crying to each other about how your "better then all of this" and you "understand" how guys are. Go have you guy bashing sessions though, and justify your actions with inane (no i didnt misspell insane) arguemnts, becuase i know that its the only way you can reduce the dissonance within yourself and conserve your ideal self image (psych pwns, make me understand lot of this more)

This really has basically nothing to do with my situation either, im just so frustrated and angry with the things i see giong on around me lately. Sorry Jeremy :(
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