Oct 18, 2006 12:25
Since my last blog things have gotten better between Derek and I...So thank you my sweet dear brother for the advice.. I love you! At the same time I got a fire inside of me to not settle for this Japan shit.. What most of you 'don't know'... Is when I first found out I was prego Derek went straight to his Gunny and this man suggested I get an abortion... I obviously didn't... Next thing you know Derek is due to be deployed to Japan.. This man is the worst Marine I've ever encountered.. He's sadistic the things he's done to my husband has had even my father who is a retired navy seal,and Chief Petty Officer raising eyebrows... I recently started a group on myspace, MCAS Wives (marine corp air station) . There was a girl who said her husband was going to be deployed to Japan.. Well I didn't understand that since we have 2 squadrons already there..So I asked my husband and he said her husband (sgt.patrick) was replacing sgt.quieros.. That puzzled me.. I couldn't let it go.. How come he gets to come home? I'm having a horrible pregnancy , I haven't gained a pound i've LOST weight and thats okay for early on but i'm 5 months going on 6.. The stress and anxiety of knowing that if something happens to me while no one is home that i' mgoing to be alone.. I realized that ya know what? I'm at risk here.. and my childs welfare.. So as I stated earlier I got a fire and I started looking up every piece of information I could.. I found one clause regarding a deployed Marine that applied more than any.. I then told Derek to talk to who ever he needs to about my situation and how i'm alone and this isn't good.. I'm at risk for being put on bed rest and the ammount of back pain i'm having is severe.. If that happens then what? So he said he would and I also planned at my next appointment to finally come clean with my doctor about my lack of food consumption..my concerns..etc... Cause if my doctor felt I was at risk he could contact command..
Well phone rings at 9am and I wasnt' expecting Derek to call but it was him.. I knew he hadn't had the chance to talk to his sgt. cause he was in the gas chamber or something.. So I wasn't expecting any news regarding the deployment situation.. Derek proceeded to tell me he was at the bar and ran into his staff sgt.. who prior to derek coming in was talking to the sgt. who is being sent home.. Derek asked his staff sgt why sgt quieros was being sent home... well his wife is pregnant which we all knew.. What Derek and I both didn't know is that NIETHER one of them should've been deployed for that VERY REASON... Come to find out I think it's the staff sgt. Had been telling people he had 2 marines that shouldn't have ever been sent there.. The staff sgt. Also told Derek that the man responsible for all this (the gunny I referred to earlier) was out to get the two of them... All the crap he put derek through minus the deployment was greatly intentional and entirely unnecessary.. So Derek does not know if he'll be sent home but c'mon? look at the facts.. He is one of TWO and one is leaving and that mans job is more important.. Derek isn't even really needed and will more than likely not even need a replacement.. He has some people he needs to speak with and further inquire about this shit... To me I say my husbands coming home.. Of course some weird shit could happen and him not.. But with the things he told me and how the staff sgt he's getting pretty close with and his sgt.. They'd go to bat for him and seems as though one already has... Since he's been making statements to people as to why the hell derek and quiero's is even there.. I've never been a real optimistic person or hopeful.. I feel you're merely setting yourself up for a let down and if not then good you'll be surprised... But here lately even prior to this news i've had a strange serine sense.. I laid in bed the other night in tears praying to bring him home.. cause at this point I don't know how i'm gonna get through this if he's not... So I got off the phone w/ Derek called my daddy cause oh yea we're speaking now.. He told me you never know with the military but seemingly with the facts there shouldn't be any reason he doesn't come home.. He's serving no purpose there.. I'm happy to say the least.. Just to know that when I was sitting here stressing over what this Gunny was doing to my husband for months and months and thinking to myself this just can't be right.. I know I only have knowledge when it comes to the Navy.. But I didn't think it could be that different.. That if you're late for work it's okay for them to beat you?... Well I was right and Karma is a bitch and this man is gonna reap what he's sown.. and regardless of whether or not they'll need a statement from my doctor or not i'm gonna make sure I tell him ALL of this for a matter of record. He had a bone to pick with two men and he did something he should've never done .. I know this i'll never take some bullshit like that again laying down...