A Closing Statement
So it's been a short while since I last posted. I just felt like you all deserved to know the end to my little story. I just haven't had any urge to write/rant anymore because I've simply stopped caring. We all know I write most when I'm fueled by emotion hehe.
I actually had started to write an entry the day after my last post. That day was kind of the climax of my dilemma. Josh and Jermey's dad (I no longer want to call him my father-in-law) sent me an extremely nasty message on Facebook. I had it all ready to post on here that day, but I don't feel like I need to...I guess validate myself any longer. It can easily be summed up to: He thinks I'm an insecure liar who's been out to get rid of Jermey from the start.
As you can imagine, I was fuming from this; started writing a letter in response on here too. Half way through, Jermey finally tried to talk to me in person and apologized. It was a bunch more bs, but whatever. It calmed me down, and I got my closure from him (although, I'll still never trust him). At that point, I put the LJ post away and simply stopped investing energy in their madness.
Let them hate me. I know I spoke the truth, my husband knows the truth and supports me, my sister-in-law is on my side...Everyone who matters gets it. If they want to live in ignorant bliss, then so be it. Maybe one day they'll see him for what he truly is, but it's oh so very doubtful.
Jermey went back to Glasgow to live with them on Sunday, Sep 4th. Josh paid for the plane ticket, as he pays for everything for those people. I cleaned the house top to bottom for 3 days straight last week. No more residual alcohol on the dining room and kitchen floor. No more leftover vomit in the bathrooms. Completely cleansed of all the bullshit.
Although I would love to delete Josh's parents from Facebook, I didn't because they are still my husband's parents. However, I did put them on a limited profile, so they won't see any new things that I post including statuses and photos. They can stare at all of my statuses that they hated so much for the rest of their miserable lives :P. Jermey, however, did delete me, which I find kind of ironic, but whatever. The less I have to deal with him, the better. I never liked seeing his bible quotes anyway when every informed person knows he's anything but pious.
It's been a week and a half now, and life has been peaceful and swell. Now I just need my husband to come home and everything will be perfect again. Currently, I'm just taking care of the pups, applying to a few jobs here and there. I uploaded my resume on Career Builder and I've already gotten two inquiries from insurance companies lol. Not exactly what I'm looking for, so we'll see how that goes. Just living a very calm life now.
Don't know when I'll post again...maybe my next life crisis :P. I just want to thank all of my wonderful friends on here and everywhere, new and old who helped me get through all of this, whether it was a simple comment on here or lots of discussion on MSN. You're all amazing, and I couldn't be more thankful to have such amazing friends across the country and the world.
The closest friends, the greatest support all held within my heart.
I actually had started to write an entry the day after my last post. That day was kind of the climax of my dilemma. Josh and Jermey's dad (I no longer want to call him my father-in-law) sent me an extremely nasty message on Facebook. I had it all ready to post on here that day, but I don't feel like I need to...I guess validate myself any longer. It can easily be summed up to: He thinks I'm an insecure liar who's been out to get rid of Jermey from the start.
As you can imagine, I was fuming from this; started writing a letter in response on here too. Half way through, Jermey finally tried to talk to me in person and apologized. It was a bunch more bs, but whatever. It calmed me down, and I got my closure from him (although, I'll still never trust him). At that point, I put the LJ post away and simply stopped investing energy in their madness.
Let them hate me. I know I spoke the truth, my husband knows the truth and supports me, my sister-in-law is on my side...Everyone who matters gets it. If they want to live in ignorant bliss, then so be it. Maybe one day they'll see him for what he truly is, but it's oh so very doubtful.
Jermey went back to Glasgow to live with them on Sunday, Sep 4th. Josh paid for the plane ticket, as he pays for everything for those people. I cleaned the house top to bottom for 3 days straight last week. No more residual alcohol on the dining room and kitchen floor. No more leftover vomit in the bathrooms. Completely cleansed of all the bullshit.
Although I would love to delete Josh's parents from Facebook, I didn't because they are still my husband's parents. However, I did put them on a limited profile, so they won't see any new things that I post including statuses and photos. They can stare at all of my statuses that they hated so much for the rest of their miserable lives :P. Jermey, however, did delete me, which I find kind of ironic, but whatever. The less I have to deal with him, the better. I never liked seeing his bible quotes anyway when every informed person knows he's anything but pious.
It's been a week and a half now, and life has been peaceful and swell. Now I just need my husband to come home and everything will be perfect again. Currently, I'm just taking care of the pups, applying to a few jobs here and there. I uploaded my resume on Career Builder and I've already gotten two inquiries from insurance companies lol. Not exactly what I'm looking for, so we'll see how that goes. Just living a very calm life now.
Don't know when I'll post again...maybe my next life crisis :P. I just want to thank all of my wonderful friends on here and everywhere, new and old who helped me get through all of this, whether it was a simple comment on here or lots of discussion on MSN. You're all amazing, and I couldn't be more thankful to have such amazing friends across the country and the world.
The closest friends, the greatest support all held within my heart.