... if I'm the only one who's been thinking of this:
From "The Sharpest Lives" by My chemical Romance:

I've really been on a bender and it shows,
so why don't you blow me a kiss before she goes?

A kiss before she goes indicates that the "you" is not a she, ergo a he. Which makes the song even hotter . Or maybe I'm just seeing homoerotic tendencies in