Well, Fine. I Wish Only the Best for You. Take Care.
I don't understand guys. I find myself dating guys who are so overly sensitive that I don't even know what to do. Ever wonder how guys feel when girls act really dramatic? Well I do. I've been dating this guy I met online. I liked him a lot. He wasn't perfect. He had plenty of flaws. But he was sweet and fun and I liked spending time with him. He tried really hard to make sure I had a good time.
However, he did suffer from disappointment whenever his attempts to make me happy were met with less than explosive adoration. I don't gush and I don't squee about every little thing that's sweet and sentimental. I just don't. He seemed to take it harder than most.
I told him many many many times that I've experienced the situation where a guy would put me on a pedestal and expect nothing but absolute perfection from me. It doesn't make me feel good. It doesn't make me feel wanted. It makes me feel disgusted at the idea that someone doesn't see me as a person, but as some sort of prize that must be won. Like some object that's the ultimate thing to have. UGH. It's the worst. I told him this. And yet he did it to me anyway.
I took him to a party hosted by my friends. It was fun! At least that's what I thought. He didn't want to go because he had a not-so-good impression of my friend. I told him to stop being dramatic and come cuz it will be fun. I had a great time. Apparently he didn't. I only realized this when he suddenly told me he had to leave because he had to work the next day. I walked him out, but he was distant and weird. I asked him if everything was fine and he said it was. He left in a real hurry and hasn't spoken to me since. I sent him a text stating that I knew something was wrong and that he should just tell me. Nothing. So I finally responded to him,
Still not speaking to me? Jeez. Well, fine. I wish only the best for you. Take care.
I'm still puzzled as to why he suddenly decided to just stop talking to me. I don't know what happened. What was it that he expected? That we'd sit together in the corner and not speak to anyone? Cuz that will never, ever happen. I don't get it. But I can't keep thinking about it. It's his problem and not mine. Whatever reason he has seems to hold more importance to him than what could have been between us. And that's ok. I really do hope he works everything out in the end. He's a good guy.
Ah well. NEXT!
However, he did suffer from disappointment whenever his attempts to make me happy were met with less than explosive adoration. I don't gush and I don't squee about every little thing that's sweet and sentimental. I just don't. He seemed to take it harder than most.
I told him many many many times that I've experienced the situation where a guy would put me on a pedestal and expect nothing but absolute perfection from me. It doesn't make me feel good. It doesn't make me feel wanted. It makes me feel disgusted at the idea that someone doesn't see me as a person, but as some sort of prize that must be won. Like some object that's the ultimate thing to have. UGH. It's the worst. I told him this. And yet he did it to me anyway.
I took him to a party hosted by my friends. It was fun! At least that's what I thought. He didn't want to go because he had a not-so-good impression of my friend. I told him to stop being dramatic and come cuz it will be fun. I had a great time. Apparently he didn't. I only realized this when he suddenly told me he had to leave because he had to work the next day. I walked him out, but he was distant and weird. I asked him if everything was fine and he said it was. He left in a real hurry and hasn't spoken to me since. I sent him a text stating that I knew something was wrong and that he should just tell me. Nothing. So I finally responded to him,
Still not speaking to me? Jeez. Well, fine. I wish only the best for you. Take care.
I'm still puzzled as to why he suddenly decided to just stop talking to me. I don't know what happened. What was it that he expected? That we'd sit together in the corner and not speak to anyone? Cuz that will never, ever happen. I don't get it. But I can't keep thinking about it. It's his problem and not mine. Whatever reason he has seems to hold more importance to him than what could have been between us. And that's ok. I really do hope he works everything out in the end. He's a good guy.
Ah well. NEXT!