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When you get an e-mail like the one I got today you know that you're doing something wrong. I've inserted the e-mail below so you understand what I'm saying. People don't feel left out for no reason and sometimes other people over look it, they think that people can take it when you hang out with other people or do something that maybe make sense to you but not to others. Some people need to think twice about the way they act, even when it's a simple act. I'm guilty of not taking time to consider other people's feelings and not spending enough time as I should making people feel better about who they are or about my friendship with them. At times I might be talking to someone on the phone for a long time, and the person might be crying on the other end and I'm thinking, "If I don't start cleaning soon I'm not going to get paid this week." That's not fair to them and it is selfish of me to think those things, it might human nature, but I don't care. I hope that one day I'll stop being as selfish as I've been and I hope my friends that I've hurt in this way can forgive me, and if you're feeling that way, please, let me know.
The e-mail:
Hi Amber
Last night about the movie it was probably a mix-up but I feel like I am always on the outside looking in with you and your friends. I just feel you weren't even sorry for the movie thing. You said that the theater that we went to is fine so I thought it was AMC. I just want to know if you are just being nice to me because you know that I don't have too many friends or what? Because I do feel like I am a whatever friend and you don't want to get very close. I am just sick of being pushed around as a whatever friend I have had too many of those and I am looking for a real friend so if you are just being a pity friend I don't want your pity. I just want the turth. So please be really honest with me and let me know where our friendship stands.
Bye
Becca
this issue has been resolved... thank goodness.