Double posting because of space restraintsroykayFebruary 5 2008, 03:37:20 UTC
Mine - FWIW
Preface: I want parity in relationships, with ample implicit and explicit love and respect. Deviations from this core value are for play only.
24/7 (Total Power Exchange)? -- Nope. I'm a play kinkster only.
Abasiophilia (Casts, Braces, Wheelchairs)? -- No
Age Play? -- Some degree if my partner is into it. I'd still be totally disinclined towards anything prepubescent.
Adult Baby/AB Parent? -- No.
Algolagnia (Pleasure derived from physical pain)? -- Giving to the extent my partner likes it/Not into receiving
Amputee Fetishism (Amputation/Deformity)?-- No.
Anal Sex? -- Yes - Giving and getting to the extent possible for a het guy.
Andromimetophilia (Androgeny)? -- Could be interesting, but I don't know.
Arse (Ass Play, Worship)? -- (See anal sex)
Asphyxiaphilia (Breath Play, Choking)? -- Never. I don't trust my capabilities.
Balloons? -- Maybe if they mean as something to pile in a room and fuck on. I'd try it.
Bestiality/Zoophilia? -- Well, maybe the odd Vulcan or Empath, since they technically aren't H. Sapiens.
Beating (Flogs, Whips, Canes, etc.)? -- Not so much. I prefer direct contact.
Biastophilia (Committing Rape/Sexual Assault)? -- Maybe "forced" sex by pre-agreement. True unwillingness? Never.
Biting/Teeth? -- Giving not getting
Blood (Drawing Blood, Cutting, etc.)? -- As a VERY minor part of a scene if my partner wants it for "marking".
Body Hair? -- Yes. I prefer a natural bush actually.
Body Modification (Tattoos, Branding, Piercings, Scarification, etc.)? -- Tats - What of and how prolific? Branding - Maybe give a little if she wants a temporary mark. Piercings & Scarification - I'd have to detach, and what's the point of detachment from a partner.
Bondage (Blind folds, Gags, Restraints)? -- Blindfolds - No, I like to see her eyes. Gags - How the fuck can you get a blow job that way? Restraints - Could be interested, but a partner usually need flexiblity to play back.
Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc.? -- I'm pretty good as calibrating it and like it if my partner responds.
Chastity Devices? -- No.
Chinese Balls/Ben Wa Balls/Anal Beads? -- Haven't tried, but might.
Cling Film/Plastic Wrap? (note to Sam, sometimes called "mummification") -- Same problem as other restraints only more so.
Cock and Ball Torture, Clamps, etc.? -- Nope
Collar and Lead/Leash? -- No. Too detached.
Confinement/Caging? -- Nope. I want access.
Coprophilia (Shit Play/Scat)? -- No.
Costumes (Period, Fetish, etc.)? -- If it's a scene I like.
Cross Dressing? -- No real interest
Cupping (Suction of the Skin)? -- If we're talking hickeys here, okay.
Dacryphilia (Arousal from Tears)? -- Doesn't turn me on, but if it heightens my partner's sence of connection to be brought to tear by physical stress, okay. I will NOT do emotional stress.
Defilement (Seeing a partner dirty or wet)? -- Mostly no. But if my partner wants that context for P2M, I'm cool with it.
Denim? -- This is a fetish?
Depilation/Shaving? -- Nahhhhhhhhhh.
Diapers/Diaper Lover? -- No
Dildos (Hand-held or Strap-ons)? -- Yes, but not as the only form of play.
Discipline? -- Actually, not my thing. Tried giving it and the sense of the thing doesn't work for me.
Doctor/Nurse Fetish? -- No.
Domination? -- Technically, I'm a "play only" top.
Ears? -- A littl nibbling as byplay.
Electrotorture (EMS TENS units)? -- No. To far removed from direct contact, and I would trust my ability to calibrate.
Erotic Photography? -- Yes.
Exhibitionism/Sex In Public? -- In a friendly group, sure.
Feathers? -- Okay.
Pyrophilia (Fire Play)? -- No. Too wary of my skill level.
Fisting? -- Hasn't proved to be worth the effort.
Food Play? -- Maybe honey drizzle or something.
Fuck Machines/Robots? -- Uncertain.
Furry/Fur Fetishism? -- Weird.
Gangbangs? -- If we were all pretty compatible.
Genital Worship? -- Yes, giving and getting.
Guns (Gun Play, Worship)? -- Nope "There ain't no such thing as an unloaded gun."
Preface: I want parity in relationships, with ample implicit and explicit love and respect. Deviations from this core value are for play only.
24/7 (Total Power Exchange)? -- Nope. I'm a play kinkster only.
Abasiophilia (Casts, Braces, Wheelchairs)? -- No
Age Play? -- Some degree if my partner is into it. I'd still be totally disinclined towards anything prepubescent.
Adult Baby/AB Parent? -- No.
Algolagnia (Pleasure derived from physical pain)? -- Giving to the extent my partner likes it/Not into receiving
Amputee Fetishism (Amputation/Deformity)?-- No.
Anal Sex? -- Yes - Giving and getting to the extent possible for a het guy.
Andromimetophilia (Androgeny)? -- Could be interesting, but I don't know.
Arse (Ass Play, Worship)? -- (See anal sex)
Asphyxiaphilia (Breath Play, Choking)? -- Never. I don't trust my capabilities.
Balloons? -- Maybe if they mean as something to pile in a room and fuck on. I'd try it.
Bestiality/Zoophilia? -- Well, maybe the odd Vulcan or Empath, since they technically aren't H. Sapiens.
Beating (Flogs, Whips, Canes, etc.)? -- Not so much. I prefer direct contact.
Biastophilia (Committing Rape/Sexual Assault)? -- Maybe "forced" sex by pre-agreement. True unwillingness? Never.
Biting/Teeth? -- Giving not getting
Blood (Drawing Blood, Cutting, etc.)? -- As a VERY minor part of a scene if my partner wants it for "marking".
Body Hair? -- Yes. I prefer a natural bush actually.
Body Modification (Tattoos, Branding, Piercings, Scarification, etc.)? -- Tats - What of and how prolific? Branding - Maybe give a little if she wants a temporary mark. Piercings & Scarification - I'd have to detach, and what's the point of detachment from a partner.
Bondage (Blind folds, Gags, Restraints)? -- Blindfolds - No, I like to see her eyes. Gags - How the fuck can you get a blow job that way? Restraints - Could be interested, but a partner usually need flexiblity to play back.
Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc.? -- I'm pretty good as calibrating it and like it if my partner responds.
Chastity Devices? -- No.
Chinese Balls/Ben Wa Balls/Anal Beads? -- Haven't tried, but might.
Cling Film/Plastic Wrap? (note to Sam, sometimes called "mummification") -- Same problem as other restraints only more so.
Cock and Ball Torture, Clamps, etc.? -- Nope
Collar and Lead/Leash? -- No. Too detached.
Confinement/Caging? -- Nope. I want access.
Coprophilia (Shit Play/Scat)? -- No.
Costumes (Period, Fetish, etc.)? -- If it's a scene I like.
Cross Dressing? -- No real interest
Cupping (Suction of the Skin)? -- If we're talking hickeys here, okay.
Dacryphilia (Arousal from Tears)? -- Doesn't turn me on, but if it heightens my partner's sence of connection to be brought to tear by physical stress, okay. I will NOT do emotional stress.
Defilement (Seeing a partner dirty or wet)? -- Mostly no. But if my partner wants that context for P2M, I'm cool with it.
Denim? -- This is a fetish?
Depilation/Shaving? -- Nahhhhhhhhhh.
Diapers/Diaper Lover? -- No
Dildos (Hand-held or Strap-ons)? -- Yes, but not as the only form of play.
Discipline? -- Actually, not my thing. Tried giving it and the sense of the thing doesn't work for me.
Doctor/Nurse Fetish? -- No.
Domination? -- Technically, I'm a "play only" top.
Ears? -- A littl nibbling as byplay.
Electrotorture (EMS TENS units)? -- No. To far removed from direct contact, and I would trust my ability to calibrate.
Erotic Photography? -- Yes.
Exhibitionism/Sex In Public? -- In a friendly group, sure.
Feathers? -- Okay.
Pyrophilia (Fire Play)? -- No. Too wary of my skill level.
Fisting? -- Hasn't proved to be worth the effort.
Food Play? -- Maybe honey drizzle or something.
Fuck Machines/Robots? -- Uncertain.
Furry/Fur Fetishism? -- Weird.
Gangbangs? -- If we were all pretty compatible.
Genital Worship? -- Yes, giving and getting.
Guns (Gun Play, Worship)? -- Nope "There ain't no such thing as an unloaded gun."
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