Fetish checklist
Got this from aztecknight -- seems like a good way to get things clearly and openly defined, which I am always all for.
24/7 (Total Power Exchange)? -- I think I could handle about 10 minutes of that before getting seriously freaked out.
Abasiophilia (Casts, Braces, Wheelchairs)? -- Not really interested.
Age Play? -- *shrug* Not really a thing either way.
Adult Baby/AB Parent? -- Ugh, no.
Algolagnia (Pleasure derived from physical pain)? -- Very much no.
Amputee Fetishism (Amputation/Deformity)?-- No.
Anal Sex? -- OW! I like to read about it sometimes, but it's been tried and I can't do it.
Andromimetophilia (Androgeny)? -- Not really.
Arse (Ass Play, Worship)? -- Not really.
Asphyxiaphilia (Breath Play, Choking)? -- NO!!!!!
Balloons? -- Huh?
Bestiality/Zoophilia? -- So not.
Beating (Flogs, Whips, Canes, etc.)? -- See response to the question about pain.
Biastophilia (Committing Rape/Sexual Assault)? -- Very much no.
Biting/Teeth? -- Some, yes.
Blood (Drawing Blood, Cutting, etc.)? -- Absolutely not.
Body Hair? -- I like my partner to have a moderate amount, but it's not a huge issue.
Body Modification (Tattoos, Branding, Piercings, Scarification, etc.)? -- Tats and piercings can be a turn-on or a turn-off, depending on what it is and where it is. Brandings and scars, NO.
Bondage (Blind folds, Gags, Restraints)? -- I love to fantasize about it, don't know how I would handle it IRL.
Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc.? -- To a moderate degree.
Chastity Devices? -- As part of a short-term denial of pleasure, could be interesting.
Chinese Balls/Ben Wa Balls/Anal Beads? -- Never tried 'em.
Cling Film/Plastic Wrap? -- Huh?
Cock and Ball Torture, Clamps, etc.? -- That would really be for the gentleman to decide. I've never had anything to do with them; the concept doesn't do anything for me either way.
Collar and Lead/Leash? -- NO.
Confinement/Caging? -- See answer about bondage above.
Coprophilia (Shit Play/Scat)? -- EWWW!!
Costumes (Period, Fetish, etc.)? -- *shrug* Could be fun, but the words and actions are much more critical parts of a scenario than what anyone is wearing.
Cross Dressing? -- No interest.
Cupping (Suction of the Skin)? -- I thought that was an Eastern medicine thing, not a sex thing.
Dacryphilia (Arousal from Tears)? -- Probably not. Tears usually mean that someone is unhappy or in pain, and neither of those are turn-ons no matter what my role in the proceedings may be.
Defilement (Seeing a partner dirty or wet)? -- Not at all.
Denim? -- This is a fetish?
Depilation/Shaving? -- Would do for someone who had a thing for it, although I tend to get an icky razor rash. I like a moderate amount of hair on my partner.
Diapers/Diaper Lover? -- So not.
Dildos (Hand-held or Strap-ons)? -- Toys are good, but I prefer the real thing.
Discipline? -- Handled with careful attention to my level of freak-out-edness at any given moment by someone I trusted utterly, then yes, to some degree.
Doctor/Nurse Fetish? -- Not really.
Domination? -- See response to discipline above.
Ears? -- I like to nibble on earlobes, but only as a small element in an overall sexual situation.
Electrotorture (EMS TENS units)? -- Really not.
Erotic Photography? -- Yes.
Exhibitionism/Sex In Public? -- I'd be too scared of getting caught.
Feathers? -- *shrug* Could be fun as part of an overall situation.
Pyrophilia (Fire Play)? -- No. Absolutely not.
Fisting? -- Haven't tried it, not terribly eager to do so.
Food Play? -- Not really, no.
Fuck Machines/Robots? -- Could be fun to try.
Furry/Fur Fetishism? -- Weird.
Gangbangs? -- Could be wonderful under carefully controlled circumstances.
Genital Worship? -- Both ways please.
Guns (Gun Play, Worship)? -- I hate guns. HARD limit.
Hair Pulling? -- Some. Not a huge thing, but I don't object as long as it doesn't get too painful. Doing it to a partner isn't really of interest, but I can if they want.
Harnesses? -- Depends on the kind.
High Heels/Stilettos? -- They make me feel sexy, so I guess yes, but again as an element of a larger situation rather than a specific focus.
Humiliation? -- NO.
Infantilism (Pacifiers/Bottles, etc.)? -- Very much no.
Kidnapping Play? -- Only under very carefully discussed and pre-planned circumstances.
Klismaphilia (Douching/Enema)? -- No. Ew.
Knives (Razors, Swords, other blades)? -- NO.
Lace/Lingerie? -- I love dressing up in sexy lingerie for a partner, and I like seeing him in something sexy, too.
Latex? -- Eh.
Leather? -- Depends on what it's being made into.
Making Home "Movies"? -- I like that a lot.
Masks (Erotic/Gas Masks, etc.)? -- Huh?
Masochism? -- NO.
Massage? -- Oooooooooh, yes please!!!!
Master/Slave? -- See response to discipline, above.
Masturbation (Mutual or Forced)? -- Always fun.
Medical Scenes/Equipment? -- Not really.... I just don't see that as sexy.
Menstruation (Sex During, Eating, etc.)? -- Ick. Cuddle me and we'll play next week, 'kay?
Military Fetish/Uniforms? -- Dress uniforms are sexy, but not as part of a play situation.
Milk Fetishism/Lactation? -- *shrug* If a partner likes it some, I'm okay with that. If they like it a lot, it would weird me out too much.
Necrophilia (Death, Corpses)? -- Yuck!
Nipples? -- I love nipples. Yours and mine.
Oral Fixations? -- Define, please.
Oral Sex? -- Yes, please!! Who gets to go first?
Pain (Giving/Receiving)? -- NO.
Pet Play (Pony/Puppy/Kitty, etc)? -- No, too weird.
Piercings? -- Haven't really had a chance to interact with any sexual piercings. Have no interest at all in getting one.
Pinching? -- Can be okay.
Play Piercing/Needle Play? -- No.
Plushophilia (Stuffed animals, Plushies)? -- Too weird.
Podophilia (Foot Fetish)? -- Not at all.
Power Exchange? -- See response to discipline, above.
Pregnancy Fetishism? -- I'd love the experience of actively trying to get pregnant with a lover, and I'd certainly love to be found sexy during pregnancy by my lover(s), but if it got to the level of a fetish that would be a bit too weird.
Punishment? -- See response to discipline, above.
The Rack/Medieval Devices? -- Sounds like fun!
Raptophilia (Sexual arousal from being raped)? -- NO.
Religious (Nunplay, Priestplay)? -- Not really.
Retifism (Shoes or Boots)? - Not really.
Rimming? -- Ew.
Role Playing? -- Yes.
Rubber? -- Depends on how it's being used.
Sadism? -- No.
Scent? -- Depends on the scent.
Sensory Deprivation? -- See response to bondage, above.
Smoking Fetishism? -- Hell no!
Spanking/Paddling? -- Some... it depends on several factors, including the attitude with which it is being administered and the severity.
Stockings/Fishnets/Pantyhose? -- If my partner thinks they're sexy, then I will feel sexy in them and happily wear them.
Talking Dirty/Verbal Humiliation/Abuse? -- The first part, yes. The second and third parts, absolutely no.
Tickling? -- I'm ticklish enough that that would very quickly distract me from being horny.
Tongue Fetish? -- Huh?
Toys (Buttplugs, Vibrators, etc.)? -- Yay toys!!!
Transvestism? -- Not really.
Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine)? -- EWW!!!
Violence/Physical Injury? -- NO.
Voyeurism? -- Yes.
Wrestling/Fighting? -- Well, yes, but not as part of sex.
Zombies/Gore? -- Very much no.
Will you post yours?
24/7 (Total Power Exchange)? -- I think I could handle about 10 minutes of that before getting seriously freaked out.
Abasiophilia (Casts, Braces, Wheelchairs)? -- Not really interested.
Age Play? -- *shrug* Not really a thing either way.
Adult Baby/AB Parent? -- Ugh, no.
Algolagnia (Pleasure derived from physical pain)? -- Very much no.
Amputee Fetishism (Amputation/Deformity)?-- No.
Anal Sex? -- OW! I like to read about it sometimes, but it's been tried and I can't do it.
Andromimetophilia (Androgeny)? -- Not really.
Arse (Ass Play, Worship)? -- Not really.
Asphyxiaphilia (Breath Play, Choking)? -- NO!!!!!
Balloons? -- Huh?
Bestiality/Zoophilia? -- So not.
Beating (Flogs, Whips, Canes, etc.)? -- See response to the question about pain.
Biastophilia (Committing Rape/Sexual Assault)? -- Very much no.
Biting/Teeth? -- Some, yes.
Blood (Drawing Blood, Cutting, etc.)? -- Absolutely not.
Body Hair? -- I like my partner to have a moderate amount, but it's not a huge issue.
Body Modification (Tattoos, Branding, Piercings, Scarification, etc.)? -- Tats and piercings can be a turn-on or a turn-off, depending on what it is and where it is. Brandings and scars, NO.
Bondage (Blind folds, Gags, Restraints)? -- I love to fantasize about it, don't know how I would handle it IRL.
Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc.? -- To a moderate degree.
Chastity Devices? -- As part of a short-term denial of pleasure, could be interesting.
Chinese Balls/Ben Wa Balls/Anal Beads? -- Never tried 'em.
Cling Film/Plastic Wrap? -- Huh?
Cock and Ball Torture, Clamps, etc.? -- That would really be for the gentleman to decide. I've never had anything to do with them; the concept doesn't do anything for me either way.
Collar and Lead/Leash? -- NO.
Confinement/Caging? -- See answer about bondage above.
Coprophilia (Shit Play/Scat)? -- EWWW!!
Costumes (Period, Fetish, etc.)? -- *shrug* Could be fun, but the words and actions are much more critical parts of a scenario than what anyone is wearing.
Cross Dressing? -- No interest.
Cupping (Suction of the Skin)? -- I thought that was an Eastern medicine thing, not a sex thing.
Dacryphilia (Arousal from Tears)? -- Probably not. Tears usually mean that someone is unhappy or in pain, and neither of those are turn-ons no matter what my role in the proceedings may be.
Defilement (Seeing a partner dirty or wet)? -- Not at all.
Denim? -- This is a fetish?
Depilation/Shaving? -- Would do for someone who had a thing for it, although I tend to get an icky razor rash. I like a moderate amount of hair on my partner.
Diapers/Diaper Lover? -- So not.
Dildos (Hand-held or Strap-ons)? -- Toys are good, but I prefer the real thing.
Discipline? -- Handled with careful attention to my level of freak-out-edness at any given moment by someone I trusted utterly, then yes, to some degree.
Doctor/Nurse Fetish? -- Not really.
Domination? -- See response to discipline above.
Ears? -- I like to nibble on earlobes, but only as a small element in an overall sexual situation.
Electrotorture (EMS TENS units)? -- Really not.
Erotic Photography? -- Yes.
Exhibitionism/Sex In Public? -- I'd be too scared of getting caught.
Feathers? -- *shrug* Could be fun as part of an overall situation.
Pyrophilia (Fire Play)? -- No. Absolutely not.
Fisting? -- Haven't tried it, not terribly eager to do so.
Food Play? -- Not really, no.
Fuck Machines/Robots? -- Could be fun to try.
Furry/Fur Fetishism? -- Weird.
Gangbangs? -- Could be wonderful under carefully controlled circumstances.
Genital Worship? -- Both ways please.
Guns (Gun Play, Worship)? -- I hate guns. HARD limit.
Hair Pulling? -- Some. Not a huge thing, but I don't object as long as it doesn't get too painful. Doing it to a partner isn't really of interest, but I can if they want.
Harnesses? -- Depends on the kind.
High Heels/Stilettos? -- They make me feel sexy, so I guess yes, but again as an element of a larger situation rather than a specific focus.
Humiliation? -- NO.
Infantilism (Pacifiers/Bottles, etc.)? -- Very much no.
Kidnapping Play? -- Only under very carefully discussed and pre-planned circumstances.
Klismaphilia (Douching/Enema)? -- No. Ew.
Knives (Razors, Swords, other blades)? -- NO.
Lace/Lingerie? -- I love dressing up in sexy lingerie for a partner, and I like seeing him in something sexy, too.
Latex? -- Eh.
Leather? -- Depends on what it's being made into.
Making Home "Movies"? -- I like that a lot.
Masks (Erotic/Gas Masks, etc.)? -- Huh?
Masochism? -- NO.
Massage? -- Oooooooooh, yes please!!!!
Master/Slave? -- See response to discipline, above.
Masturbation (Mutual or Forced)? -- Always fun.
Medical Scenes/Equipment? -- Not really.... I just don't see that as sexy.
Menstruation (Sex During, Eating, etc.)? -- Ick. Cuddle me and we'll play next week, 'kay?
Military Fetish/Uniforms? -- Dress uniforms are sexy, but not as part of a play situation.
Milk Fetishism/Lactation? -- *shrug* If a partner likes it some, I'm okay with that. If they like it a lot, it would weird me out too much.
Necrophilia (Death, Corpses)? -- Yuck!
Nipples? -- I love nipples. Yours and mine.
Oral Fixations? -- Define, please.
Oral Sex? -- Yes, please!! Who gets to go first?
Pain (Giving/Receiving)? -- NO.
Pet Play (Pony/Puppy/Kitty, etc)? -- No, too weird.
Piercings? -- Haven't really had a chance to interact with any sexual piercings. Have no interest at all in getting one.
Pinching? -- Can be okay.
Play Piercing/Needle Play? -- No.
Plushophilia (Stuffed animals, Plushies)? -- Too weird.
Podophilia (Foot Fetish)? -- Not at all.
Power Exchange? -- See response to discipline, above.
Pregnancy Fetishism? -- I'd love the experience of actively trying to get pregnant with a lover, and I'd certainly love to be found sexy during pregnancy by my lover(s), but if it got to the level of a fetish that would be a bit too weird.
Punishment? -- See response to discipline, above.
The Rack/Medieval Devices? -- Sounds like fun!
Raptophilia (Sexual arousal from being raped)? -- NO.
Religious (Nunplay, Priestplay)? -- Not really.
Retifism (Shoes or Boots)? - Not really.
Rimming? -- Ew.
Role Playing? -- Yes.
Rubber? -- Depends on how it's being used.
Sadism? -- No.
Scent? -- Depends on the scent.
Sensory Deprivation? -- See response to bondage, above.
Smoking Fetishism? -- Hell no!
Spanking/Paddling? -- Some... it depends on several factors, including the attitude with which it is being administered and the severity.
Stockings/Fishnets/Pantyhose? -- If my partner thinks they're sexy, then I will feel sexy in them and happily wear them.
Talking Dirty/Verbal Humiliation/Abuse? -- The first part, yes. The second and third parts, absolutely no.
Tickling? -- I'm ticklish enough that that would very quickly distract me from being horny.
Tongue Fetish? -- Huh?
Toys (Buttplugs, Vibrators, etc.)? -- Yay toys!!!
Transvestism? -- Not really.
Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine)? -- EWW!!!
Violence/Physical Injury? -- NO.
Voyeurism? -- Yes.
Wrestling/Fighting? -- Well, yes, but not as part of sex.
Zombies/Gore? -- Very much no.
Will you post yours?