if you wanna be my lover... ((or)) you better shape up, cause i need a man...
lucky me.
new year's came early...
here are my new boy resolutions:
1) he must... absolutely MUST love Jesus.
no longer will "my family is catholic" or "i go to church on holidays" be acceptable...
2) he must believe in (and practice) moderation in all things... except kissing and hugging--i like lots of those!
doing anything too frequently is unhealthy... sleeping, drinking, smoking, eating, etc...
3) he must strive to become a better person because he is with me...
...just as i should want to become a better person because of him.
4) he is never allowed to make me feel cheap, stupid, worthless, etc...
if i want to feel bad about myself, i'll turn to the media... thank you.
5) he should never feel that he has to censor his behavior around me.
if what he is doing is so bad, he's not the right boy for me.
6) his life must not be lacking in direction.
...i don't care if he's not there yet... he'd better be on his way somewhere.
7) i know it's trivial, but some semblance of good looks is a plus.
...however, this is easily compensated for in the personality department.
8) he and i must have something in common...
...duh.
9) if he is stupid enough to tell me how he "misled" or "tricked" his ex girlfriends, he's as good as gone.
...this also goes for saying not nice things about them to me for no reason.
10) he must be secure enough with himself to make me feel secure.
...this is the trickiest one by far... it has many different meanings... all which hold pretty much equal value in my eyes... if you're good enough to have made it this far, i shouldn't have to explain it to you...
if you're not, that's too bad.
<3,
kat
new year's came early...
here are my new boy resolutions:
1) he must... absolutely MUST love Jesus.
no longer will "my family is catholic" or "i go to church on holidays" be acceptable...
2) he must believe in (and practice) moderation in all things... except kissing and hugging--i like lots of those!
doing anything too frequently is unhealthy... sleeping, drinking, smoking, eating, etc...
3) he must strive to become a better person because he is with me...
...just as i should want to become a better person because of him.
4) he is never allowed to make me feel cheap, stupid, worthless, etc...
if i want to feel bad about myself, i'll turn to the media... thank you.
5) he should never feel that he has to censor his behavior around me.
if what he is doing is so bad, he's not the right boy for me.
6) his life must not be lacking in direction.
...i don't care if he's not there yet... he'd better be on his way somewhere.
7) i know it's trivial, but some semblance of good looks is a plus.
...however, this is easily compensated for in the personality department.
8) he and i must have something in common...
...duh.
9) if he is stupid enough to tell me how he "misled" or "tricked" his ex girlfriends, he's as good as gone.
...this also goes for saying not nice things about them to me for no reason.
10) he must be secure enough with himself to make me feel secure.
...this is the trickiest one by far... it has many different meanings... all which hold pretty much equal value in my eyes... if you're good enough to have made it this far, i shouldn't have to explain it to you...
if you're not, that's too bad.
<3,
kat