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[__frailty__]

Thanks for the advice, Laertes, but

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[freesia_boy]

So you truly love him? But you'll be killed if you give in? Figuratively or literally...

*Pauses* I guess it's different for someone like me. But if you decide to let go and give in, things will change. I know this. So... do you dare the unknown, or will you stick with safety?

[__frailty__]

I do love him. And killed figuratively. I hope...

I see what you're saying, but I don't know which option is the safer one. I can't imagine what life would be like without him...

[spoongoddess]

Don't let him pressure you into anything. It'll make you very unhappy in the long run.

[pansy4thoughts]

Thou wouldst do well to flee, as far and as fast as ever thou mayest. He will do thee naught but harm if thou dost not. Would that I had such advice, that mine own troubles be not so overwhelming...

[__frailty__]

I'll keep that in mind...

[pansy4thoughts]

*nods firmly and stalks off to finish exacting her justice*

[derek_bliss]

If he loves you he will not insist on you taking a course that will be disasterous for you. Instead, he would find a way to work within the constraints of you society.

Also, any man who uses 'I will marry you if you do this for me' is just trying to get what he wants without actually
committing to you. Again, if he is truly serious, and not just trying to get his own satasfaction, he will marry you first and then ask for what he wants.If you give him what he wants first, he will be under no obligation to uphold his end of the bargain--you've given him something for free without making sure he takes responsibility and commits.

[__frailty__]

I...I guess that makes sense. It's hard for me to believe he'd do something like that.

[derek_bliss]

Even the most noble of men can commit the most ignoble of acts.

Wait until he has actually committed to you, that way you will know for sure what his intentions towards you are.

[__frailty__]

But he's going away soon, and I'm worried that if he doesn't think I love him, he won't want to get married when he comes back.

Or what if he meets someone else?

[hawk_shay]

If you're not sure and he's pressuring you, don't. It's that simple. If you're right, and he's not just after that one thing, it shouldn't be that big a deal for him anyway.