Sadistic Leather Daddy Bear. I have been part of the community in on form or another for over 15 years as Master and Daddy. I am living in central Jersey, and I am looking to start a family of like-minded individuals who are looking to be submissive to me, but not necessarily to each other. Daddy Bear Tezer is a benevolent dictator! There is no ( Read more... )

When someone tells you that you are beautiful it's not just about you ( Read more... )

i was a member of safehave on yahoo before the member rooms were killed. like here i was Ghost Masters jewel .... i miss that place the chats the friends .... anyone recall me say hello ...i still my yahoo account as well ghost_masters_jewel and still love a good disscussion ( Read more... )

Recently several friends ended relationships with their Dominants. I was speaking to one such friend the other day about "long term" and how it specifically relates to D/s (or any variation/flavore thereof). We realized that there are only a select few (who we know) who have long term, (i would dare say lifetime) committments with each other. It ( Read more... )

Well I joined this community last week, and finally have the time to do an intro :-)

Hmm what to say ... well my name is NightDaughter, and I am a submissive .. I am not collared nor am I owned, nor am I looking for either at this point in time.

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Hello everyone. I just found this community and joined, so I thought I would take a moment and say hello and ask a few questions.

I'm a bit "new" to this, well, D&S, not sex. I have had many girlfriends, but never before have I had a girl ask me to "top" her. I've had rough and tumble sex before, but nothing as formal as dominance and ( Read more... )

Ok, maybe it's not a phobia, but possibly a HUGE hang up. Has anyone had the problem with nudity? What I mean is, have panic attacks knowing that "strangers" will be leering and jeering at your body that they have no right to be seeing anyway ( Read more... )

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I've recently discovered, much to my surprise, that I am extremely titillated by the BDSM lifestyle...Movement?...Life? See, I don't even have the terminology right, and I don't want to look too stupid or be offensive. Coupled with this is the fact that I'm not a kid, and used to think I was way past the experimenting phase ( Read more... )