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Ok.. so I just had a looong conversation with my dad about a lot of things. One in particular; my sister's wedding. Its in 2 weeks. Well.. LESS than 2 weeks. I feel like I haven't been doing my part and I do feel bad for that so I guess this is where i make it up. Instead of bitching about it like I did with my dad I should be excited. I haven't planned my sisters bachelorette party because I thought it wasn't going to be all on me, but evidently it is. It has to be this weekend so what do I do now? (hold that thought while i go search bachelorette party in google).
Things You’ll Need:
Step1. Discuss potential dates with the bride and then with the rest of the wedding party.
Step2. Try not to involve the bride in anything except choosing the date, venue and invite list.
Step3. Tailor the party to fit the personality of the bride-to-be.
Step4. Estimate costs ahead of time, and factor in food, cover charges, drinks and cab rides.
Step5. Plan to serve some nonalcoholic beverages for those who don't drink alcohol.
Step6. Arrange taxis or designated drivers if drinking alcohol is part of the evening's plans.
Step7. Warn guests ahead of time if you plan something that might be offensive to some. Allow guests to back out gracefully if the party is not their cup of tea.
Ok. So I have only 3 or 4 days to plan this out. Instead of doing all of the cheesy crap I think I'm gonna go simple. We'll go eat. She said she wants crabs, so maybe I will figure out where we can dine and eat crabs. Crabs are expensive? My dad says all I do is complain about the money...yeah. Maybe after crabs we will grab drinks. I need to know who to invite. Maybe she can invite them. Time is ticking. Does everything have to follow on a complete set of rules? I'm sick of these traditional rules. I'm a horrible maid of honor.
Duties of the Maid of Honor:
Make sure the bride arrives to the ceremony and that she has everything on the Maid of Honor Checklist that we have created to make your life easier.
Assist the bride in getting into her dress and makeup
Be the messenger if the bride wants to communicate messages to the family or groom so you are always up on what is going on.
Visit the reception room and party room (if possible) to make sure there are no problems or issues. It is much better to be proactive.
Help make sure the bride has privacy if she needs some quiet time before the ceremony.
Be the witness in the signing of the marriage license which is an honor!
Help the bride with her veil and train (if she has one). I have seen many weddings where brides have tripped on their train which takes away from her experience for a moment.
Be your friend's "right-hand-woman" at the altar. She may be very nervous and you can be the calming source with your presence.
Keeper of the brides bouquet during the ceremony. Make sure you have a free hand.
Keeper of the groom's ring. It is your task to also make sure the groom's ring is in your possession at all times until you give the ring over to the bride!
Make a toast and/or speech during the wedding party since it is tradition and most people love hearing these friendship stories!
Make sure you lock up the bridal/groom money bag after the bride and groom dance with all of their family and friends so someone does not steal or pick it up by accident.
Last, but not least, provide moral support and be a great listener throughout the process since it is a very wonderful and "positively" stressful time for your friend. You can really make the difference!
Too often, the duty of "straightening/fluffing" the Bride's dress is overlooked. If the Bride is staying on a level, straight path, then this can be done before her descent down the aisle. However, if she is turning, or stepping up steps and/or turning to reach her destination, then the Maid/Matron of Honor should first adjust her train before accepting the bouquet to hold. This is most easily done by holding the train at points about (2) feet apart, and gently "shaking" the train (as if shaking a rug!) one good time, and it will fall beautifully in place.
Now all I need to do is follow this checklist on the wedding day. :P
Things You’ll Need:
- Invitations
- Party Decorations
- Champagne
- Beverages
- Food
Step1. Discuss potential dates with the bride and then with the rest of the wedding party.
Step2. Try not to involve the bride in anything except choosing the date, venue and invite list.
Step3. Tailor the party to fit the personality of the bride-to-be.
Step4. Estimate costs ahead of time, and factor in food, cover charges, drinks and cab rides.
Step5. Plan to serve some nonalcoholic beverages for those who don't drink alcohol.
Step6. Arrange taxis or designated drivers if drinking alcohol is part of the evening's plans.
Step7. Warn guests ahead of time if you plan something that might be offensive to some. Allow guests to back out gracefully if the party is not their cup of tea.
Ok. So I have only 3 or 4 days to plan this out. Instead of doing all of the cheesy crap I think I'm gonna go simple. We'll go eat. She said she wants crabs, so maybe I will figure out where we can dine and eat crabs. Crabs are expensive? My dad says all I do is complain about the money...yeah. Maybe after crabs we will grab drinks. I need to know who to invite. Maybe she can invite them. Time is ticking. Does everything have to follow on a complete set of rules? I'm sick of these traditional rules. I'm a horrible maid of honor.
Duties of the Maid of Honor:
Make sure the bride arrives to the ceremony and that she has everything on the Maid of Honor Checklist that we have created to make your life easier.
Assist the bride in getting into her dress and makeup
Be the messenger if the bride wants to communicate messages to the family or groom so you are always up on what is going on.
Visit the reception room and party room (if possible) to make sure there are no problems or issues. It is much better to be proactive.
Help make sure the bride has privacy if she needs some quiet time before the ceremony.
Be the witness in the signing of the marriage license which is an honor!
Help the bride with her veil and train (if she has one). I have seen many weddings where brides have tripped on their train which takes away from her experience for a moment.
Be your friend's "right-hand-woman" at the altar. She may be very nervous and you can be the calming source with your presence.
Keeper of the brides bouquet during the ceremony. Make sure you have a free hand.
Keeper of the groom's ring. It is your task to also make sure the groom's ring is in your possession at all times until you give the ring over to the bride!
Make a toast and/or speech during the wedding party since it is tradition and most people love hearing these friendship stories!
Make sure you lock up the bridal/groom money bag after the bride and groom dance with all of their family and friends so someone does not steal or pick it up by accident.
Last, but not least, provide moral support and be a great listener throughout the process since it is a very wonderful and "positively" stressful time for your friend. You can really make the difference!
Too often, the duty of "straightening/fluffing" the Bride's dress is overlooked. If the Bride is staying on a level, straight path, then this can be done before her descent down the aisle. However, if she is turning, or stepping up steps and/or turning to reach her destination, then the Maid/Matron of Honor should first adjust her train before accepting the bouquet to hold. This is most easily done by holding the train at points about (2) feet apart, and gently "shaking" the train (as if shaking a rug!) one good time, and it will fall beautifully in place.
Now all I need to do is follow this checklist on the wedding day. :P