Something that really bothers me.

[ryoflame]

Is when friends go to other people/mutual friends to inquire about particular things involving me. I mean, I guess as long as I never find out about it, no harm done, right? But when I find out I get hella paranoid and actually incredibly frustrated.

I'm talking about, for example, if a friend is concerned they might have irritated me. Instead of

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[isikenai]

I can understand how that can be a bit unnerving, but I don't think they are talking about you in a bad way. The asking "is Ryo annoyed" thing is a bit weird because it's true only you would know that, but maybe they ask what you like because they're trying to buy a present for you or surprise you? I dunno, I know that I've asked Hattie before how you're going cause I haven't seen you in awhile and she sees you more often than me. We don't gossip she just tells me how you've been. And then a few days later I'll sms you or read your LJ. It's not really a malicious thing I think.

[ryoflame]

Ahh that's kind of a different situation to the one I'm referring to. Things like 'what should I get Ryo as a present' and stuff--no, I mean I get the need for secrecy on that. I'm more referring to questions that could/should be asked of me, but that people are too afraid/nervous to ask so they go and ask someone else instead so they don't have to deal with me directly. I've had it happen too often.

[isikenai]

Oh yeah that's shit :/ why not just ask you!? I agree that you are really forward and would probably answer it. Btw Hattie said you're coming over tonight, I'll miss seeing you!! D: but I give you both permission to continue dream high. I caught up on my own and me and Hattie watched 2 more episodes last night so I'll catch up again later 8D

[lucidlucifer13]

one of the downsides of having friends who also know each other, they talk around you when they should be talking TO you.