I'm here... got a nudge again from Ms. Enchy... ;o)
Proper update will follow in the next week or so.
In the meantime... I'm working, parenting, living, and just survived both a helicopter ride and the first appt with the Divorce Lawyer with the soon to be ex.
Though none of it is easy (though the ride was easy after I found my tummy again)....
plodding along..