Shidduch is not with the shadchan!
I was contacted by the sibling of a person, to find a shidduch for this person.
Said person judged me quickly. Too young, too modern, too everything. Not serious.
I like the sibling, so I went on searching, and in one week found more "names" than the 3 shadchanim before in one year together (bh).
Now the sibling contacted the person to tell about it, and the person came back alllll apologizing. My yetzer hara told me to say "oh sorry they're all busy" but no I didn't do it ;)
Said person judged me quickly. Too young, too modern, too everything. Not serious.
I like the sibling, so I went on searching, and in one week found more "names" than the 3 shadchanim before in one year together (bh).
Now the sibling contacted the person to tell about it, and the person came back alllll apologizing. My yetzer hara told me to say "oh sorry they're all busy" but no I didn't do it ;)