Misery Loves Company

[rubybegonia]

We are on a "break". We have broken up. We decided that it would be a good idea to break up for 2 weeks to get a handle on what we really wanted. We decided to reconvene in 2 weeks to see if more time is needed. I was concerned about the blatant co-dependence and insecurity he had, he was concerned I did not love him enough. I am concerned that

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[edelwiess]

Hey, I don't care what eharmony does say, there is someone for you. Believe it. Your working your program right now, so you can be healthy and prepared for that right one. Yes the "honeymoon period" does pass. It's hard to lose that "high" but what can follow is security, warmth, safety and passion that goes beyond the character defaults that are discovered when the honeymoon period passes. That's not a bad thing. Love is an action word not just a noun. The key is action. I don't believe that there is someone out there who has nothing that we can find "wrong". But I do believe that there is someone whos "rights" outweight the wrongs. Your journey is rocky right now, but your navagating in a way that you've never tried before. Good for you. Excuse me for repeating myself, but finding someone that you can love and have things in common with, like enjoying the same types of pasttimes, liking the same movies and even enjoying the same foods puts you past the level of being "in-love" and gets you to real love. A place where