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[rowen0fstrata]

Up until today, I believed I was dealing with the fact of a sudden loss of a girlfriend after 3 long years, the feeling of slowly drifting away from a best friend and no longer having that someone to really talk with, my entire family amotionally pressuring me to magically find out exactly what I want to do with the rest of my life, being

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[david_deacon]

Fuck 'em, Rowen. If your family isn't supportive, don't talk to them and don't let them discourage you with their BS. If your friends aren't supportive, get new friends. Don't be around anyone who makes a hobby of destroying your life and your mood. Screw these people--only associate with people that are encouraging.

[litajup657]

As for your mom, I don't think it's like they want you to magically know what you wanna do, more like what direction maybe? Wherever your passions are directed?

"Why are you even taking classes anyways, you're just going to drop out"

I know that probably put you down, and it's not something you'd wanna hear or even remember it being said, but eventually when that hurtful feeling's past, try looking at it another way...kind of like someone ribbing you but in a semi-serious fashion. Thinking about why you dropped them or what lead you to drop them would help. If it was due to like, circumstances out of your control that's one thing, but if it involves things you can control, or avoid, or yadda yadda...then it's possible.

But that all depends where your passions are, just as long as you know for yourself. Iunno, maybe I'm just repeating things you've heard, gimme a call sometime I'd like some downtime & some chitchatting w/ you D: . 408 - 386 - 0712 take care *thwap*

[thegreenwaffle]

I'm so proud of you for trying. Keep it up, sweetie. Call me ANY time.