Apr 20, 2005 14:24
I can't believe that marrying out of your communoity is still an issue with most families in India. I know one such family. I come from a family where my parents are okay if I married a decent guy who didnt come from my caste,subcast etc...
well really I fail to understand the pschology of people who say their children should only marry withing thier community especially if they live in big cities like mumbai,calcutta,delhi etc. If the person is good and from a good family how does it matter?
Also its hard for the chidren as how are they supposed to not meet people whom they like or go out with them or fall in love, well I have even heard the argument go out do wahtever don't marry... Is that fair? matching horoscopes... well it works but its not that marriages dont work without it...
argument food is different well marriage is adjustment and if as adults 2 people feel they can do it why not let them