Girls ...
All I really want is girls..
How does one ask a girl out? without coming off desperate or creepy, especially when you have only talked to them a little bit? I'm not good with small talk, I down right hate it. I feel as if I have nothing interesting or funny to say why speak to hear my own voice? This leads itself to the problem of making relationships as most start with small talk. I am not a bad conversationalist on the contrary once a good topic gets going I can keep it up and veer it different routes. Anyways..
The point I am trying to make is how can guys simply get a girls number or ask them out after talking to them for 3 seconds. Multiple coworkers have gotten girls numbers at work, from customers not fellow employees. I'm not looking for that but that confidence that braggadocio that they have that instantly attracts the feminine persuasion.
But I'm not totally at a loss. Last week I was walking back from this audition workshop with another girl who happened to lose her voice. I'm best at making fun of people (not in a mean way, well kinda, but I mean well) and got her to laugh and smile which was nice. We said goodbye she touched my arm and said it was nice meeting you and I asked if she had facebook and I facebooked her. Now that was last week. So we are friends on facebook now. Now what?
This is the part I suck at. I can open the chance but I haven't the foggiest on how to proceed. It probably stems from all those middle school crushes that I came on way too strong for (sending notes tied to flowers, writing poems, professing my undying like for them). They thought I was weird, I thought I was being romantic. So basically I don't want to come on too strong but its making me not come on at all? gahh
I don't like this dating thing one bit. Maybe subconsciously I also think they are out of my league? I know I am the reacher in my relationships generally and the girl is the settler with a few notable exceptions.
Well that's enough out of me. Hopefully I'll get lucky at this girl's party this weekend who will be drunk and go back to her errant slutty ways. Why'd I have to meet her after she went to Trollops Anonymous?
How does one ask a girl out? without coming off desperate or creepy, especially when you have only talked to them a little bit? I'm not good with small talk, I down right hate it. I feel as if I have nothing interesting or funny to say why speak to hear my own voice? This leads itself to the problem of making relationships as most start with small talk. I am not a bad conversationalist on the contrary once a good topic gets going I can keep it up and veer it different routes. Anyways..
The point I am trying to make is how can guys simply get a girls number or ask them out after talking to them for 3 seconds. Multiple coworkers have gotten girls numbers at work, from customers not fellow employees. I'm not looking for that but that confidence that braggadocio that they have that instantly attracts the feminine persuasion.
But I'm not totally at a loss. Last week I was walking back from this audition workshop with another girl who happened to lose her voice. I'm best at making fun of people (not in a mean way, well kinda, but I mean well) and got her to laugh and smile which was nice. We said goodbye she touched my arm and said it was nice meeting you and I asked if she had facebook and I facebooked her. Now that was last week. So we are friends on facebook now. Now what?
This is the part I suck at. I can open the chance but I haven't the foggiest on how to proceed. It probably stems from all those middle school crushes that I came on way too strong for (sending notes tied to flowers, writing poems, professing my undying like for them). They thought I was weird, I thought I was being romantic. So basically I don't want to come on too strong but its making me not come on at all? gahh
I don't like this dating thing one bit. Maybe subconsciously I also think they are out of my league? I know I am the reacher in my relationships generally and the girl is the settler with a few notable exceptions.
Well that's enough out of me. Hopefully I'll get lucky at this girl's party this weekend who will be drunk and go back to her errant slutty ways. Why'd I have to meet her after she went to Trollops Anonymous?