Thanks for bringing this to my attention, Jenna!
There's a problem when you lend a helping hand and the recipient isn't eager to give it back. Still, there must be a reason why you keep difficult people as your friends. Boost your tolerance for frustrating behavior with the harsh or bittersweet memories from your own time of suffering. Hunger does strange things to a person. Compassion carries the day, even if you have to bite your lip to do it. Somewhere there's a reward for you. You just hope it finds you soon. Compensation would be a fine thing indeed after what you're going through here.
I hate my life today...