this is for me to uderstand and you to agree with.
ppl are hard to understand. i see that. for the most part i have little or no desire to try to understand them.
but when i come across a person who truly intrigues (sp?) me enough; i make an effort. it doesnt happen often but when it does i still only make a small effort. i wait in till i know the other person is as interested or worthy of the attention. it is then that i consider them my friends. when they take just as much time to know me as i take on them.
i truly dont appreciate any of the following.
1) friends whose conversations are all about gossip, that doesnt involve me or even them.
2) friends who make assumptions of me, especially those assumptions that show how little they trusted in me or cared about the friendship.
3) along with the assumptions but important enough to be its own point all together are friends who make assumptions on me when they only know an other persons side of the story. that includes sam.
4) friends who see me and sam as one. e.i. assuming that because sam is ok or not ok with something i have the same felling towards what ever that may be. or e.i. giving us a joint identity with the use of a nickname.
5) THIS ONE IS NOT WORTH MENTIONING.
6) "friends" who say they dont "give a shit" about friends because they fuck you over. i dont care to deal with a person who regards friends as being untrustworthy. the line is simple on that one, you dont have to trust me, but let me know ahead of time so i know not to trust you. trust has to be mutual for it to work.
7) friends who ignore your messages, because the content was "uncomfortable" or whatever.
like i told someone before, i consider a friend someone who i am able to talk things over. i however dont give to many chances. i dont like wasting my time. ppl seem to think i dislike alot of ppl but really i'm just anti social, i dont like "friends" who might as well be your enemies. i only like having ppl around who i can trust. i only like having ppl around who are willing to listen, not to help me pass judgment (i'd like to think i can judge for my self) but just cus sometimes you need someone to listen.
so...
8) friends who judge when it isnt any of their FUCKING business.
but when i come across a person who truly intrigues (sp?) me enough; i make an effort. it doesnt happen often but when it does i still only make a small effort. i wait in till i know the other person is as interested or worthy of the attention. it is then that i consider them my friends. when they take just as much time to know me as i take on them.
i truly dont appreciate any of the following.
1) friends whose conversations are all about gossip, that doesnt involve me or even them.
2) friends who make assumptions of me, especially those assumptions that show how little they trusted in me or cared about the friendship.
3) along with the assumptions but important enough to be its own point all together are friends who make assumptions on me when they only know an other persons side of the story. that includes sam.
4) friends who see me and sam as one. e.i. assuming that because sam is ok or not ok with something i have the same felling towards what ever that may be. or e.i. giving us a joint identity with the use of a nickname.
5) THIS ONE IS NOT WORTH MENTIONING.
6) "friends" who say they dont "give a shit" about friends because they fuck you over. i dont care to deal with a person who regards friends as being untrustworthy. the line is simple on that one, you dont have to trust me, but let me know ahead of time so i know not to trust you. trust has to be mutual for it to work.
7) friends who ignore your messages, because the content was "uncomfortable" or whatever.
like i told someone before, i consider a friend someone who i am able to talk things over. i however dont give to many chances. i dont like wasting my time. ppl seem to think i dislike alot of ppl but really i'm just anti social, i dont like "friends" who might as well be your enemies. i only like having ppl around who i can trust. i only like having ppl around who are willing to listen, not to help me pass judgment (i'd like to think i can judge for my self) but just cus sometimes you need someone to listen.
so...
8) friends who judge when it isnt any of their FUCKING business.