This is a lot of stuff, so I've tried to divide it up into parts for those of you interested in reading it. Hopefully its length doesn't turn you off... that's what she said! ZING!
No, but for serious, this post is long.
Let's start by going back to
my post from a few days ago, because I am still thinking about it.
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Trans* is a 'death warrant' for gays & lesbians: not just stupid, but also a seriously homophobic statement. )